Today is Mother’s Day. Though—note—only in the United States. (I don’t want to send any international readers into a frenzy of online flower ordering.) But it is an important day nonetheless that encourages us to show gratitude. We could do with more of that.

There is one type of motherhood that is worth mentioning because it is too little written about, and it comes to mind because of the great woman whose speech I want to focus on today.

One of the oddities of our time is the tendency to try to fix things that aren’t broken, or at least to apply vast slathers of attention to things that are doing pretty well. For example: “representation” in industries with a great deal of it. Or, better yet, women in popular culture.

Whenever I watch a Netflix show these days, it seems as if there are several themes that are yawningly predictable. One of them is the motif of the “strong woman.” (I’m not referring to the South Park “strong woman.” That is a subject for another day.)