'A Culture of Courage': A German Celebrates American Freedom

Here’s a heart-warming video about a German who moved to America to get married, only to discover most of what he thought he knew was wrong.

• “Europe lied to me about America, but not in the way you think. Because I didn’t move here because I hated Germany. I moved here because I fell in love with an American. And two years later, I have to admit something that makes many of my old friends angry. Because the country I was taught to look down on made me more hopeful, more ambitious, and more free than I ever imagined. And that is uncomfortable because it means America was not the country I misunderstood.”
• “Happy birthday, USA. The World Cup is happening here. And right now, Europeans are having the same moment I had two years ago. They arrive with jokes. They arrive with opinions. They arrive thinking they already understand America. And then normal America hits them in the face. Not Hollywood America, not political America, just normal America. And that is exactly what breaks the story Europe told. When I watch this World Cup tourists, I see myself two years ago. I see that moment where the America I was warned about disappeared. Two years ago, on July 1st, I moved from Germany to the United States of America. And I did not just move countries. I moved from a culture of caution into a culture of courage. And I was not ready for what would do that to me.”
• “Germany gave me a lot. It gave me structure, discipline, education, a strong work ethic. And I’m very grateful for that. I am German. I still think like that in many ways. I still overanalyze things. I still want everything to be planned. I still get nervous when something is not organized. And sometimes I still look angry even when I’m having a great time.”
• “But Germany also gave me something I had to unlearn. A voice in my head that said, ‘Be careful. Do not stand out. Do not dream too big. Do not be too proud. Do not risk too much. And definitely do not say America might actually be amazing.’ That voice was not always loud. It sounded reasonable. It sounded mature, but slowly it made my world smaller. And I did not even notice it until I moved here. That is what Europe does to a lot of people. It does not crush your dreams dramatically. It just makes them feel embarrassing.”