Shrier's Lesson: Raise Your Own Damn Kids

Abigail Shrier’s Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren’t Growing Up is not really about therapy. Instead, it’s about parents who let competitors for their authority usurp their role in raising their children and the harm such people can cause. Shrier focuses her journalistic instincts and love of research on a clear problem: the therapeutic industry is larger than ever yet has failed to improve mental health. Instead, the rising generation appears to be the least capable of self-government on record. Shrier identifies at least three forces that threaten to replace parents: therapists, teachers, and the culture of psychiatric study. These options allow parents to outsource their authority to someone else, and Shrier contends that such outsourcing harms children. The solution is simple: parents need to parent, for the good of their children.

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Ed Morrissey

I have not yet read the book, but based on other reviews, this seems to be the message Shrier intended to deliver. But as I discuss with Adam Baldwin on Monday's Amiable Skeptics episode, parents seem unprepared to do that -- and there's a good reason for it. The nuclear family model has been under attack and undermined for six decades now, and that damage has accumulated into generations of adults without the skill sets or support systems to effectively parent. And in a good number of cases, we have adults who'd rather stay in their own childhoods rather than lead their children through theirs. 

John has more thoughts in his VIP column today, so be sure to check that out as well. 

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