A polyamorous couple has decided that it’s time for them to settle down. The couple has been together for more than 14 years and now share a 1-year-old son.

Their version of settling down means that they’re looking for another woman to join them in a throuple. This other woman would also become a second mom to their son.

Finding a willing partner to join them hasn’t been as easy as you might think. Their dating life has hit a bit of a snag since the birth of their son.

Jess and Stephen Demarco, who have made headlines with their unusual lifestyle in the past, aren’t going to let the slow dating life get them down. They’re putting it out there that they want another partner to help raise their son.

“We actually waited a little bit longer than we were going to because we [originally] wanted to start a family [with a third woman],” Jess said of having another woman join them.