We hear about “strong women” so much these days. Yet, oddly enough, our culture can scarcely tell us what a woman is, let alone honor the God-given differences between men and women. We have thrown the beauty of womanhood to the wayside. Too many women have fallen prey to the modern-day definition of what a strong woman is (and what it means to be a woman at all for that matter).

Time and time again, women are told that a career is an absolute must. They must do whatever they need to do to make that happen (including abortion if necessary). Multiple partners are okay. After all, it’s your body and if it feels good, you should go ahead and do it. Just don’t forget your birth control (after all, you’ve got to be responsible). At the same time, seeking out a lasting, loving relationship with a worthy man isn’t encouraged nearly enough. Women are told they don’t need a man or a family.

Please don’t misunderstand what I am saying. Caring for yourself is good. Advocating for yourself is good. Protecting yourself is good. Fighting for positive changes and equality can be good. All too often, however, it’s all about “me, myself, and I.” A strong woman has become one who pushes everyone and everything out of their way to get what they want. Women are encouraged to abandon their natural femininity, including their natural tendencies to care for others. Sacrifice is a foreign concept. Life has become all about personal achievement and “one upping” the guys.

[Or becoming a guy. — Ed]