The co-host said the point of the gathering was “dismantling” white supremacy. At one point, Rao recalled a story of a Black Lyft driver telling her to put her hands up and act calm if they were pulled over by police. When one guest expressed shock at this, Rao informed the room such shock actually apparently upholds white supremacy.

“That’s the way he lives. That’s his reality,” Jackson said before co-host jumped back in.

“I also want to ask to stop acting shocked. Part of white feminism is acting so surprised when we tell you —” Rao said before being interrupted by another guest.

“Why are you telling us not to act the that way we act if it is surprising? To me, that is surprising,” the guest said.

“Because that upholds white supremacy,” Rao announced.