We need to talk about Palin's family challenges

It’s important to understand why, then, Mrs. Palin has hit a nerve. It’s not because she’s a woman with children trying to do a man’s job. It’s because she’s actually pushing the combination of professional and personal ambitions beyond the sensibilities of this generation of working moms. As women, we may be awed by her, but she’s not necessarily a role model for so many professional women who now say they want to do it differently, that they don’t want to do 150% of everything all of the time.

So what you are hearing is less condemnation than a collective gasp of amazement — and exhaustion — at the thought of juggling five children, one of them an infant, and the most extreme example of a job with little or no flexibility. It would make supermom feel feeble. And we should celebrate the fact that all of this can now be discussed openly.

It is not sexist to have this conversation. It is sexist not to.