“Nothing stood out compared to the other men in the class,” she said. “He just didn’t really know how to interact with women.”

In the tape, Steele tells a group of men to get over their fears of approaching women and to stop being such nice guys all the time, claiming the “nice guy must die.”

Steele also pontificates on what to do when you encounter a woman who “thinks she’s hot (expletive) and everyone is kissing her (expletive) trying to go out with her.” The secret is to insult her shoes…

In an eerie moment on the tape, Steele tells his acolytes, “Your job is to make yourself memorable. Make her remember your name.”