Late marriage and its consequences
The simplest way to interpret this impact is suggested by the write-up the study received from the Atlantic: Great for college-educated women, pretty good for the rest of the female population, bad for men and particularly bad for working class men. Upper-class women reap a large wage premium from delaying marriage — a college-educated woman who marries in her 30s earns over $15,000 more annually than a woman who marries in her early 20s, and when you look at household income, the premium for marrying later rises to more than $20,000. Women without 4-year degrees also enjoy a wage premium when they delay marriage, albeit a smaller one (and a very small one when you look at household income). Men, meanwhile, reap a wage premium from marrying earlier, so late marriage tends to hurt their economic prospects: For men without a 4-year degree, the earlier the marriage, the higher their income, and even college-educated men earn more if they marry in their 20s than in their 30s. (This is not the only way that the burdens of the new marital landscape seem to fall heaviest on males.)
But the “good for women, bad for men” story is complicated by various factors. The cost of children, for one: While well-educated women are generally delaying marriage and childbirth, less-educated American women who wait to marry are much more likely to have a child before wedlock, which raises the chances that they’ll end up raising them with an absent or unreliable father — and with it, the chances that their wage premium will be eaten up by the price of parenting. The risk of never marrying, for another: For both the well-educated and the less-educated, marriage delayed can mean marriage forgone, and in terms of household income it makes more of a financial difference whether you marry at all than whether you marry at 27 or 31.









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Heck. I’d have been jubilant had my daughter or son married at those “late” ages.
Ladysmith CulchaVulcha on March 22, 2013 at 7:39 PM
I think I’m destined for eternal bachelorhood.
eaglescout_1998 on March 22, 2013 at 7:42 PM
Marry late in life and have kids. Problem? You bet. Kids require a lot of energy on the part of parents and older parents just don’t have it. Kids make you tired all the time and that is a lot easier to deal with when you are younger.
trapeze on March 22, 2013 at 7:42 PM
What about the cost of changing your religion every couple of years, Donut?
Blake on March 22, 2013 at 7:58 PM
I agree I had my first at 25 and my second at 34 and there was a marked difference in my energy level with my first and second. That wasn’t a huge difference. I can’t imagine having my first in my late 30′s or my second or third then. I am tired now with a 14 year old and a five year old…
melle1228 on March 22, 2013 at 7:58 PM
My married relatives all seem to have had relatively successful, relatively sexless lives. Ditto for the others who are single or divorced.
Seth Halpern on March 22, 2013 at 8:50 PM
Don’t wait until you’re older to get married – my mom was 40 when I was born, and I was 40 when our first daughter was born. What stinks is that grandchildren don’t get to enjoy their grandparents for very long, because they’re already so old. My daughters really didn’t get to know my mom very well, because she was already in her eighties when they were toddlers, and her senility took hold not long after. My grandmother (my mom’s mother) was the sweetest thing, but she died when I was just eleven.
Plus, when you’re older, you don’t get to enjoy an empty nest for very long – I’ll be 62 when my youngest daughter graduates from high school. Plus, it’s harder to do all those parents do, like bending over the bathtub to bathe your kid when you’re 50.
Ward Cleaver on March 22, 2013 at 9:33 PM
I had all my kids by the time I was 25, and I’m glad I did.
Bob's Kid on March 23, 2013 at 1:45 AM
Infertility is also a problem in older “brides”.
cptacek on March 23, 2013 at 1:48 AM
And some of us did not chose to remain single past our mid 30s, it just happened.
It’s especially bad for Christian women who want marriage – single female Christians seem to out number the single Christian males and the males don’t go to church,which is where you are supposed to go to meet a Christian mate.
The majority of Christian women did not choose to stay single, they did not place career over and above marriage, but a lot of people assume this is so, the Christian preachers and sites keep making this incorrect assumption.
TigerPaw on March 23, 2013 at 2:54 AM
Why the unnecessary scare quotes around the word brides? I hope it’s not ageism.
TigerPaw on March 23, 2013 at 2:55 AM
It’s also an issue for younger brides,
New face of infertility: Under 35, frustrated
Males over 40- “grooms” (to use your scare quotes) also contribute to infertility or babies born with health problems:
What’s That Ticking Sound? The Male Biological Clock – Men are also at the mercy of age when it comes to having kids
Sometimes you don’t have a choice.
I never planned on being still single past 35, lots of other Christian women my age in same situation, wanted marriage but never met the right guy – sometime met no guys, no boyfriends.
I can’t wave a magic wand and make a husband appear.
TigerPaw on March 23, 2013 at 3:00 AM
If my husband and I hadn’t broken up at one point, we probably would have been married sooner than we actually were. I was 26 when we met, 27 when we broke up, and 28 when we got back together. In the interim, I had gone back to college, so we waited for me to finish school before we got married. I wish I had been younger when my son was born, but sometimes life happens.
ScoopPC11 on March 23, 2013 at 5:49 AM
men you marry young do better because the woman nags them to get their crap together.
unseen on March 23, 2013 at 7:28 AM
Guys tend to get burned young and keep to themselves afterwards or turn into players. either way by the time we are in our 30′s we aren’t looking for marriage unless we want to have more children. Esp those that have gone through the divorce courts. But they are out there. Just keep looking.
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unseen on March 23, 2013 at 7:49 AM
When young men see their friends, brothers, and uncles get taken to the cleaners in the kangaroo court of divorce, plus the economy is so wretched they can’t afford married life. (this is, btw, without counting the effects of our tax system on the wedded.)
Want more marriages, right-wingers? Quit your hand-wringing and get these boulders off our backs! Oh wait, you can’t, the liberals have all the power now. So I guess you’ll just have to live with it.
MelonCollie on March 23, 2013 at 2:05 PM
from a guy’s POV there is zero reason to get married except not wanting your children to be bastar@s. the divocre laws are so slanted towards women men have to be stupid to marry. It doesn’t matter what the woman does she gets the children, the home, half the money you earned, you pay for the right to see your children once every two weeks if you are lucky and God Forbid if you piss off your ex wife. Most woman can and will use the children as pawns. states should do away with nofault divorces and go back to the days where the actions of the individual determined the outcome of the divocre assets.
unseen on March 23, 2013 at 3:39 PM