Putting Santa on trial

posted at 5:01 pm on December 23, 2012 by Jazz Shaw

As the weekend draws to a close and we prepare for Christmas Eve, what more fitting time to look at a modest proposal from Dante Chinni at the Washington Post. The author is struggling with one of the perennial debates facing parents around the world… what to do when the kids become unsure about Santa Claus. The proposed solution can be summed up in the title.

Instead of leaving cookies, let’s give Santa the Boot

First, Santa leads to unfortunate parental contradictions. Children do not fully understand reality. They fear that there are monsters in their closets and goblins under their beds. As parents, our job is to explain to them that those things aren’t there. When you turn off the light, it’s the same bedroom — just darker. We teach them to understand and to reason.

And yet, with Santa Claus we carve out an exception large enough to fly a sleigh through. We tell our kids to turn off logic and embrace magic. They just have to believe. But why? Why is some of what they believe silly and unfounded — such as ghosts — while Santa is noble and true?

This line of thought then devolves into the inherent unfairness of Santa Claus and the poor example this sets for the children. After all, as the argument goes, why would Santa bother keeping a list of who is naughty and who is nice if everyone winds up getting presents anyway? And why do the rich kids get more than the poor kids? It’s just not fair!

This brings us to the conclusion of this airing of grievances, wherein we learn that there’s really no need for the jolly old fat man anyway, and it’s time to give hm the old heave ho ho ho.

And that brings us to the third and most important reason I’m over Santa. We simply don’t need him. The world, the real world, is an incredible place all by itself. It is big and complicated and fascinating, and Santa Claus and magic cheapen it. This is something we grasp when children ask us questions like “Why is the sky blue?” or “What’s it like on the other side of the world?” The answers are amazing, thought-provoking and illuminating.

Sit down and talk to your kids about space. Try to explain how it all works. It’s more incredible than a magical fat man in a red suit.

Look, everyone is free to raise their own children as they see fit within the confines of common decency and the law, but this is just sad. After reading this piece I tried dredging my earliest memories up and I confess that I no longer even remember precisely when it was that I made the shift from believing Santa was bringing me gifts every year and negotiating with my parents. Whenever it was, it clearly didn’t leave too much of a mental scar on me and I know that I continued to enjoy Christmas with the family for years to come.

Is there some compelling reason to not continue the tradition of Santa Claus with children in the 21st century? Are we truly heading toward that much of a sterilized society? There’s plenty of time for them to grow up and discover the natural wonders of the universe without robbing them of the joys of the season. Perhaps the author should revisit the story of Virginia O’Hanlon..

Merry Christmas to you all.


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Nicely said..

PatriotRider on December 18, 2012 at 11:26 AM

That was beautiful, Ed. Thank you.

JoAnn1965 on December 18, 2012 at 11:27 AM

I would rather see us go full speed on something to help those with mental illness. It’s easy to loath that kid, and others like them, but they have been living in their own personal Hell and it’s time to really work on the relief of their suffering. Sandy Hook should never seem like the answer.

Cindy Munford on December 18, 2012 at 11:29 AM

Shame this will fall on deaf ears. One of the greatest failings of the last 40 years have been politicians, and not just here, but around the world.

Gatsu on December 18, 2012 at 11:29 AM

:)

Well said.

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:30 AM

Bravo

JDF123 on December 18, 2012 at 11:33 AM

While I don’t always agree with Erick Erickson, he had a good post this week. He reminded us that one often overlooks that Herod slaughtered every male child under two in an effort to eliminate the Messiah. We usually forget that in the midst of angels, sheperds and wise men.

In a fallen world, there will always be rational evil. Whether Adam Lanza was crazy or evil, one will never know, but there are plenty of rational, evil beings throughout human history. Rational evil has always been a problem for secularists, who want to put down the deeds to “not fully appreciating,” or “not knowing” the very foreseedable consequences of their actions, if they cannot attribute the choices to mental illness.

Our elder brothers in our faith have an obligation, “Tikkun Olam,” the obligation to heal the world. We cannot fix the world, but we can, try to heal it when it is hurt.

Wethal on December 18, 2012 at 11:35 AM

the libs have humiliated us enough.

its payback time. ok maybe not right this second. but soon. after Christmas.

renalin on December 18, 2012 at 11:37 AM

Can I steal the little baby Jesus from the Nativity scene now?

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 11:39 AM

Thanks Ed. Nice article.
L

letget on December 18, 2012 at 11:39 AM

It is a beautiful sentiment but why is our love for one another so temporary?

Cindy Munford on December 18, 2012 at 11:40 AM

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 11:39 AM

i got the baby. gave the incense to Slade.

renalin on December 18, 2012 at 11:40 AM

I would rather see us go full speed on something to help those with mental illness. It’s easy to loath that kid, and others like them, but they have been living in their own personal Hell and it’s time to really work on the relief of their suffering. Sandy Hook should never seem like the answer.

Cindy Munford on December 18, 2012 at 11:29 AM

Treatable mental illness should be addressed.

I posted part of a conversation with my older sister, a mental health professional, last night on the Quotes of the Day. She said in all honesty that the personality types that generally participated in these mass killings tended to be psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists or occasionally extreme aspies. For the first three they are not treatable from a mental health perspective. They lack a conscience and no amount of pharmaceuticals or interventions will change that. The only protection from them is permanent involuntary institutionalization. Are we ready to go in that direction?

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:43 AM

It is a beautiful sentiment but why is our love for one another so temporary?

Cindy Munford on December 18, 2012 at 11:40 AM

Because we tend to forget that love is a choice not an emotion. Love is the engine and emotions are the box cars.

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:47 AM

thanks Ed…well said

RedInMD on December 18, 2012 at 11:50 AM

She said in all honesty that the personality types that generally participated in these mass killings tended to be psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists or occasionally extreme aspies.

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:43 AM

That tends to describe those participating in politics, too. Just sayin’… ;-)

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 11:52 AM

RedInMD on December 18, 2012 at 11:50 AM

Very lonely I presume.

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 11:54 AM

We have been treated to an avalanche of sanctimony and arrogance across the political spectrum after the shooting, with people insisting that their long-favored hobby horses coincidentally provide a perfect solution to a problem as old as humanity itself — and that’s true of both sides to some extent. This comes ironically at the Christian celebration of advent, which teaches us lessons in humility and human frailty, and how the power of love will prevail over the love of power.

give it up. You’ve created the ultimate cess pit of “sanctimony and arrogance” here at Hot Air, where rightists come to beat their white sunken chests and proclaim how much better and more self righteous they are than liberals. Ugh. Talk about hypocrisy. If “humility” was the true goal here, then ban all of your most frequent commenters.

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:43 AM

I’ll go read it. I have limited experience with a bi-polar relative who was institutionalized from the 50′s through the 70′s, she often attempted suicide and held a knife to her very small child, but I don’t know that she would have really ever done anything. So, yes, I guess I would say that if we can truly diagnosis these folks, it would be best to put them away. Most of the time they kill themselves, I wonder what insight we can gather from the Colorado and Arizona killers?

Cindy Munford on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

This comes ironically at the Christian celebration of advent

Indeed, Ed. Ever since Cain we’ve been dealing with this in one form or another:

When Herod realized that he had been outwitted by the Magi, he was furious, and he gave orders to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old and under, in accordance with the time he had learned from the Magi.
Matt. 2:16

Out of that horror came the salvation of Mankind who suffered and died for the sins of the world. May God forgive us, may God comfort us, and may our minds be turned to Christ now more than ever.

Weight of Glory on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

Can I steal the little baby Jesus from the Nativity scene now?

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 11:39 AM

I always thought the manger was supposed to be empty until Christmas Day.

My parents used to put up a plain unadorned Christmas tree a few days before Christmas. When we awoke Chrismas morning, it was all lit up and beautifully decorated because Santa had visited during the night.

Where is the awe and magic anymore?

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:05 PM

It is a beautiful sentiment but why is our love for one another so temporary?

Cindy Munford

Because you–we, me–find it easier to lump people into rigid categories. ‘Conservative.’ ‘Liberal.’ Aided of course by the anonymity of the internet.

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:06 PM

That tends to describe those participating in politics, too. Just sayin’… ;-)

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 11:52 AM

Yep.

22044 on December 18, 2012 at 12:07 PM

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

Perhaps Ed could start with you. You post quite a bit. Most of it hateful.

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 12:07 PM

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:05 PM

As is our tradition. German I’m told.

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 12:08 PM

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

like this one’s the arbiter of that. as likely as my bridge in Florida that’s ready to sell.

22044 on December 18, 2012 at 12:09 PM

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

A trollcot might be appropriate.

Thank you for the great message Ed.

itsspideyman on December 18, 2012 at 12:12 PM

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:06 PM

Yes, because you have demonstrated for us all what the milk of human kindness can do for one another. I’ll start taking you seriously when you can verbalize your views in a rational positive way, regardless of what is said to you by the anonymous people here. At this point you go nuts when anyone even teases you, let alone disagrees with you. You want everyone to give up on their beliefs while you hold fast to yours. What are you willing to lose for security.

Cindy Munford on December 18, 2012 at 12:15 PM

Off I go on another tangent, I found this:

Other animals you might find in the manger scenes are the Magis’ camels (added with the Magi on Twelfth Night), the peacock symbolizing immortality, and a cat — usually a cat with kittens. The cat — la Gatta della Madonna — is based on an old Christmas legend that a tabby cat gave birth to kittens in the stable as Mary gave birth to Jesus. Said kitty purred Baby Jesus to sleep, and as a reward, the letter M, for Mary, was put on its forehead (see a picture of tabbies with perfect letter M’s in the footnotes).

We always called them “Mickey” kitties, after my Uncle Mickey. I think he might have some ‘spainin’ to do.

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:18 PM

Ed-
Forward this to President Revenge please.

FlaMurph on December 18, 2012 at 12:26 PM

Well said, Ed; and, thanks for that.

I’d encourage us all to focus on how to solve this current dreadful trend of mentally ill people, mostly young adult or teen males, who are acting out as they are, so violently against others.

It’s not solving anything to refer to mentally ill persons as “evil” because, well, perhaps ALL illness, sickness, lies, all of that ARE evil but it doesn’t help those suffering from mental illness — or evil — to ignore it or worse, to ridicule them.

In the case of this young man responsible in Newtown, it sounds as if he was given a huuuge amount of extra caring helps and attention in sensitivity to HIS sensitivity, while no one expected him to act out so violently.

Perhaps it’s his now-also-deceased mother who was aware that he WAS acting out violently (the video gaming activities, particularly, which she surely was aware of) and was desensitized to the violence herself, to her own ruin.

We as a nation have to address mental health conditions.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 12:31 PM

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:18 PM

I absolutely reject the idea that Christ was a cat person!

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:31 PM

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:31 PM

Should confuse the heck out of Allah. Lol!

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 12:34 PM

Because you–we, me–find it easier to lump people into rigid categories. ‘Conservative.’ ‘Liberal.’ Aided of course by the anonymity of the internet.

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:06 PM

We were touching upon this last week before all hell broke loose in Newtown, CT.
I think the discussion was that Republicans should begin to engage more in “Identity Politics” to compete more effectively with the Democrats WHO ALREADY ARE DOING IT.

If we here are are “lumping people into rigid catagories” we are only following that which has been proven effective.

Jabberwock on December 18, 2012 at 12:42 PM

It’s not solving anything to refer to mentally ill persons as “evil” because, well, perhaps ALL illness, sickness, lies, all of that ARE evil but it doesn’t help those suffering from mental illness — or evil — to ignore it or worse, to ridicule them.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 12:31 PM

The slayings in Newtown were an evil act. And I’m on the fence as to whether or not the shooter was evil. I get your point but at the same time there are plenty of individuals suffering from mental illness who DO NOT shoot their mom in the face and then drive over to the local school to shoot 26 others.

I was living in New Orleans after Katrina. Relevant to this discussion, it was an interesting experience because literally the entire city was suffering from mental health issues. Some were able to handle it better than others but how do you treat an entire city? To a certain extent I think as a nation we are all suffering from a type of mental illness. It has manifested itself in many ways among them the decline in traditional values, the political polarization, and the fact we only react to violence in cases like Newtown or Aurora and not when that violence occurs in ones and twos over any given weekend in any given city. How do you treat a nation for mental illness.

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:44 PM

I absolutely reject the idea that Christ was a cat person!

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:31 PM

Your choice, but, maybe, Allahpundit would find it… amusing?

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:47 PM

Should confuse the heck out of Allah. Lol!

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 12:34 PM

Oh dear, I should have read the next post. Bmore… we’re mind melding again.

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:48 PM

Fallon on December 18, 2012 at 12:48 PM

; )

Bmore on December 18, 2012 at 12:56 PM

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:44 PM

I COMPLETELY AGREE that the deeds done in Newtown were “evil” — “an evil act” as you write. I completely agree with that.

And I’m the last person who needs evidence that evil exists in this world and that some people are motivated by it with little saving grace or appeal to change…I’ve seen it, I’ve witnessed it, believe me, short of naming names, which I won’t do on the internet, I’ve seen people who are motivated by, “possessed by” evil, to use a Biblical term.

I’m only saying that referring from a problem-solving or solution-finding frame of reference to this shooter in Newtown as “evil” satisfies a more profound defintion of the deed and what motivated him but it doesn’t do anything (if not is also counter-productive) to continue to refer to him and his (yes, evil) deeds as “evil” and to avoid trying to understand and then to treat what the mental complications involved were.

I don’t know the answer, I’m not a physician, but our nation does have a budding if not an erupted problem today of — especially evident in — disturbed teen or young adult males who are resorting to violence against others, against society. Guns aren’t the problem, their state of mind is and that’s my point: we must address the causes and the conditions present in this segment of society who is acting out so desperately and hatefully (and violently) against others.

WE can discuss it from a theological perspective and it’s right and good that we do, but the issue of functionality is something that needs to be addressed more broadly.

I guess on a “government” level — as to all this talk among politicos about “government solutions” and all that after Newtown — it seems that the dangerous condition today is in the mental health area, not in the area of tools such as “guns” or whatever else as to tools a mentally disturbed person would and does use when they’re acting out.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 1:04 PM

Well said, Ed.

Your phrase “we can’t impose by power a Utopia” struck a nerve with me.

I’ve spent a lot of time reading George Orwell lately. Somehow the wisdom in his words speak more an more to me. While he was no Christian and no capitalist, he was importantly an anti-utopianist. He did not believe in the attainment of perfect through socialist concepts. Furthermore movements such as the progressive/liberal/whatever have in the subjugation of rights for the attainment of a Utopian dream would certainly have disturbed him.

I think the movement’s force now is lead by those who really, seriously, think that through some force of will we can bend individuals minds and create a “perfect” society, in which no one hurts anyone, no one dies, and every does exactly what is expected in them.

Some where Eric Arthur Blair rolls in his grave.

itsspideyman on December 18, 2012 at 1:04 PM

2 thumbs up.

docflash on December 18, 2012 at 1:08 PM

They lack a conscience and no amount of pharmaceuticals or interventions will change that. The only protection from them is permanent involuntary institutionalization. Are we ready to go in that direction?

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:43 AM

I was talking with my brother-in-law, who is a psychiatrist, about this very topic. His comment was that the only thing they know that helps these people is “lead therapy”. Since lead poisoning can affect the nervous system I thought that perhaps there was some innovative use of lead in treating these types of patients. But when I said “Really?”, he made a gun with his index finger and held it to his head.

So yes, perhaps we have reached that point.

lovesthesun on December 18, 2012 at 1:11 PM

I absolutely reject the idea that Christ was a cat person!

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:31 PM

WOOF WOOF WOOF WOOF I agree! – 22044′s dog

Just kidding, I don’t own a dog. :)

22044 on December 18, 2012 at 1:12 PM

I remember a story I read a few years ago…

…about a problem that existed in some areas of game reserves in Africa, how it was that endangered Rhinos where found dead or dying with big wounds in their sides and the game wardens were perplexed how they became wounded so terribly. The wounds were too radical to be from other Rhinoceros and they didn’t match any tooth or claw marks by other predators.

Eventually, it was discovered that adolescent male elephants were roaming around assaulting Rhinos with tree limbs the elephants picked up and used as battering-weapons against the Rhinos, the adolescent male elephants roaming around in groups too old to be tolerated by their mothers in the elephant herds and too young to be out on their own as isolated male, adult elephants.

So these adolescent male elephants were acting-out in needless, gratuitous violence against Rhinos who had become their chosen victims: smaller and with poor eyesight and easily victimized by adolescent male elephants who pierced the Rhinos’ sides with large trees held in their trunks.

THE SOLUTION TO THIS PROBLEM (a behavioral problem by adolescent male elephants) was to introduce ONE ADULT MALE ELEPHANT per “range” or area of elephant populations.

ALL that had to be done was to leave ONE ADULT MALE ELEPHANT in the range area and the adolescent male elephants soon stopped their raging, aware that the male elephant in their neighborhood would retaliate against the adolescents if they continued to act-out as they had been violently.

I think our growing population’s problem of violence and mental health problems has to do, somewhat if not a lot, with the “male role model” of behavior that males today are limited to or even missing.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 1:12 PM

They lack a conscience and no amount of pharmaceuticals or interventions will change that. The only protection from them is permanent involuntary institutionalization. Are we ready to go in that direction?

chemman on December 18, 2012 at 11:43 AM

I was talking with my brother-in-law, who is a psychiatrist, about this very topic. His comment was that the only thing they know that helps these people is “lead therapy”. Since lead poisoning can affect the nervous system I thought that perhaps there was some innovative use of lead in treating these types of patients. But when I said “Really?”, he made a gun with his index finger and held it to his head.

So yes, perhaps we have reached that point.

lovesthesun on December 18, 2012 at 1:11 PM

Antipsychotic meds help many who suffer from a psychosis such as Manic Depression and sometimes, Schizophrenia. People often have what’s called “a dual diagnosis” with both those conditions simultaneously, and they can be managed with medications, as long as they continue under medical supervision.

It’s tough, I realize. It’s the people who never are in contact with physicians in these regards who are the biggest concern.

This guy in Connecticut, from what I’ve heard, had a lot of EXTREMELY CARING, CONSCIENTIOUS attention from adults but it looks like he never got in contact with a physician who was able to diagnose the guy’s mental issues properly if at all. Or so I’m assuming from the little I’ve read so far about the guy.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 1:18 PM

…treating these types of patients. But when I said “Really?”, he made a gun with his index finger and held it to his head.

So yes, perhaps we have reached that point.

lovesthesun on December 18, 2012 at 1:11 PM

UNFORTUNATELY, anyone who indicates they’re suicidal is also indicating they’re violent, meaning, posing a potential to harm themselves…AND/OR OTHERS.

So it’s not just a case of them ending their own lives, it’s also a concern of them harming others.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 1:20 PM

…how do you treat an entire city? To a certain extent I think as a nation we are all suffering from a type of mental illness. It has manifested itself in many ways among them the decline in traditional values, the political polarization, and the fact we only react to violence in cases like Newtown or Aurora and not when that violence occurs in ones and twos over any given weekend in any given city. How do you treat a nation for mental illness.

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 12:44 PM

I agree that the increased denigration of and suppression of the sharing of Christian theology and beliefs – including organizations that are sponsored by such but are being held to task to cease associating with such – is part of the problem.

Scouting, for example, helped many a young person for decades but the marring of that org. continues. Same with ROTC in higher education combined with the replacement of “real” social relationships like that with the artificial realm of violent media.

And increasingly urban environments and overcrowding, limiting resources for all and confining more of us with every generation.

There’s a lot to be said for being raised in rural areas and small towns, kids grow up with more adults available to them on ratio in a population, for starters, and learn a great deal about empathy and socialization from agricultural activities. Urban lifestyles eliminate so much from what many of us need as to being able to relax and relate well to others.

Lourdes on December 18, 2012 at 1:26 PM

Lourdes and Cindy: If you go the involuntary hospitalization route, what do you do when they classify ‘conservatism’ as ‘mental illness’ and start in on them?

For any liberals in the crowd, substitute homosexuality for conservatism, same question.

Are you willing to give a limited set of unaccountable people–whether experts in their field or not–power over whether you can live a free life?

Scott H on December 18, 2012 at 1:36 PM

Are you willing to give a limited set of unaccountable people–whether experts in their field or not–power over whether you can live a free life?

Scott H on December 18, 2012 at 1:36 PM

Hey if it’s good enough for Obama’s death panels, it should be good enough for homosexuals! Right?

Fact of the matter is that we are already beyond that point with this administration. All the real decisions and power is in the West Wing through unelected (and unconfirmable) radicals who only answer to the rat-eared wonder.

Happy Nomad on December 18, 2012 at 2:12 PM

give it up. You’ve created the ultimate cess pit of “sanctimony and arrogance” here at Hot Air, where rightists come to beat their white sunken chests and proclaim how much better and more self righteous they are than liberals. Ugh. Talk about hypocrisy. If “humility” was the true goal here, then ban all of your most frequent commenters.

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

If I may ask, are you African-American?

DaveDief on December 18, 2012 at 2:25 PM

Happy Nomad: I agree with you. That’s why I’m concerned over people’s well-meaning concern over mental health being a shifting of ground without a shift in the argument.

Scott H on December 18, 2012 at 2:44 PM

If “humility” was the true goal here, then ban all of your most frequent commenters.

lostmotherland on December 18, 2012 at 12:04 PM

Sanctimonious leftists always believe in tyranny and restriction of speech. May you never live free, never. You don’t deserve it.

Schadenfreude on December 18, 2012 at 4:33 PM

Humility is not humiliation, and humility is not powerlessness.

Humility doesn’t mean thinking less of yourself; it means thinking of yourself less.

logis on December 18, 2012 at 5:19 PM

It is the recognition that we are all fallen human beings,

but the Utopians do not believe this

Good and evil is identified by the degree to which any person professes Utopian principles. Only dissenters are fallen

This is the reason there is no dialogue. There is no common ground

The Pope tried to set up a dialogue with the muslim world, on the basis that we can agree everyman shares an intrinsic understanding of good and evil, regardless of religion, and from that commonality we can move forward. He was repeatedly answered with the reply that we can all agree there is one god and mohammed is his prophet.

Utopians also find no commonality with those who do not espouse first order Utopian truths, such as, every man has a right to a job

So what would be called a second order directive in Western civilization, would be called a prime truth in Utopia. Thus every man must be provided with a job, before we worry about private property rights which in Utopia are secondary to the prime directives

entagor on December 18, 2012 at 6:14 PM

…nice!…thank you Ed!

KOOLAID2 on December 18, 2012 at 9:32 PM