Confirmed: Chivalry is dead
posted at 9:01 pm on August 10, 2010 by Allahpundit
Via Sports Grid. Granted, it’s been dead for a long time, but rarely do we get this good of a look at the corpse. The clip prompts a question from Ace’s co-blogger DrewM, though:
I’m confused…he’s a Beta [male] for running like a little girl but Betas don’t get cute blonds. How to explain him?
Ah, but he’s not a beta. A beta would be a guy who, in a desperate bid to win her love, would dive in front of her to shield her from the impact — and would end up getting hit right in the face. The alpha is the guy in shades who stands by and laughs, baseball cap turned backwards yet slightly offset in classic devil-may-care style. The beta tries too hard; the alpha doesn’t try at all. Advantage: Alpha. Hope that clears things up.









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I think you all have missed one other important aspect to this. She wasn’t smart enough to get out of the way. Stupid should hurt.
I wonder how many people remember this incident?
deewhybee on August 11, 2010 at 3:53 AM
I wonder how many people remember this incident?
deewhybee on August 11, 2010 at 3:53 AM
I remember.
The local Sh*tcago papers had photos of women that looked like they were dead ‘sitting’ in the desks where they were shot while in the background some guy was taking down the Christmas decos. The shooting happen around Christmas.
annoyinglittletwerp on August 11, 2010 at 3:59 AM
Chivarly’s not quite dead, but almost. Were it dead, the announcers wouldn’t have commented, noticed, cared. They pretty much raked this jerk over the coals, as far as MLB broadcasts go.
Also, I agree with RalphyBoy. This kid has his fifteen minutes of fame–and they’re pathetic. What a sad thing to overcome.
Grace_is_sufficient on August 11, 2010 at 4:46 AM
Good for you, if true.
From the Duke Journal of Gender Law & Policy:
22 million children go home to one parent, and 83 percent of those parents are moms.
Chivalry usually HAS to be taught to a boy by the boy OBSERVING MEN and how they act toward/around women. Boys CAN be TRAINED to be courteous and respectful to women but this usually requires a heavy hand by a woman (and thus CAN engender hidden resentment).
So perhaps your boy is a model of chivalrous behavior or he’s been in a position to observe men being chivalrous, but sadly he’s beaten the odds.
jcw46 on August 11, 2010 at 4:48 AM
Monty Python isn’t real.
Males have a protective instinct. They also have an instinct toward self-preservation. Which one prevails depends upon what we cultivate as a culture. A culture that pretends male and female roles are interchangeable, that boys should play with dolls and not engage in “violent” play like cops and robbers, that normal boys should be on Ritalin, and that males need “sensitivity training” for anything is a society that ends up with males who see no point to anything besides self-preservation, and may not even have that. How many college men have stood passively waiting to be shot instead of going after their attackers? The Canadian rampage was only one example–we’ve seen it again and again in the U.S. in a variety of contexts.
Boys and girls need to be taught to be men and women, and this includes gender roles. Sorry if that bothers anyone, but the reality of not teaching those things includes this incident as only a sample. C. S. Lewis said, “We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst.” Well, we train boys to be passive and girls to trumpet their “grrrl power,” and we’re shocked at the results.
DrMagnolias on August 11, 2010 at 5:45 AM
I’ve attended perhaps hundreds of minor and major league games and not once have I ever got a foul ball nor a home run hit towards me.
Chivalry ain’t dead, its been superseded by the need to CATCH THE BALL!!
TwinkietheKid on August 11, 2010 at 5:49 AM
Males do benefit from “sensitivity training”, but not in the board room. They should learn this in the context of a loving relationship with their parents first: Dad bops them upside the head if they backtalk their mother. Later, they become sensitive as they hope to win the heart of a woman, and figure out she’s not receptive if he’s a lout.
But men also need a place where they can be, well…men. Not insensitive, necessarily, but man-like. And those environments are dwindling, because women have stuck their noses in nearly every single one, whining until we could be included in the softball leagues and the pool halls and every other male-dominated arena you can think of. So we expect men to be “sensitive” everywhere they go, and then when they become beta, women wonder where all the “real men” have gone.
The older I get, the more I deplore what the “women’s movement” has done to our society.
Grace_is_sufficient on August 11, 2010 at 6:35 AM
Grace_is_sufficient on August 11, 2010 at 6:35 AM
Bradky on August 11, 2010 at 7:06 AM
AP you damn Yankee, have Astro’s fans not suffered enough this year?
I think that douche was a plant in Astro’s garb. Probably from the Giants…..
conservnut on August 11, 2010 at 7:23 AM
Amen and amen. One of the reasons things are out of whack is a minority of women (e.g. NOW) have foisted on the rest of us the notion that female “good,” male “bad.” If you let men be men and women be women, it works. If you want sameness, then don’t gripe about the lack of chivalry.
ncborn on August 11, 2010 at 7:56 AM
Wow. You are just really screwed up inside, aren’t you? But, I have to agree with Slavedog; it’s CLEARLY Bush’s fault.
xax on August 11, 2010 at 8:40 AM
I don’t think this has anything to do with chivalry.
The real question is: Did he care about her enough to try and protect her? Obviously he didn’t. And he’s a douche for all eternity.
Take the same situation and substitute a parent/child, wife/husband or even best friends. You’ll get a different outcome.
xax on August 11, 2010 at 8:44 AM
I actually saw this live. My first thought was, what a wuss and then I saw the close-up of him with his hat on sideways. What a douche is more like it. The girls should dump him ASAP. Hey, I have a son who is about her age. Does anyone have the contact info?
roux on August 11, 2010 at 8:55 AM
And these two morons will probably contaminate the gene pool by having kids.
abcurtis on August 11, 2010 at 9:35 AM
Wow… all that insight as to their intelligence and gene worthiness from a 2 minute clip…
Bradky on August 11, 2010 at 9:51 AM
Wow… all that arrogance and condescension in a 16-word sentence fragment…
DrMagnolias on August 11, 2010 at 10:11 AM
Wow….all that secret knowledge that abcurtis is correct. Is there a secret decoder ring involved?
Bradky on August 11, 2010 at 10:27 AM
He is where he belongs…
Mr. Joe on August 11, 2010 at 10:32 AM
Maybe avoiding such dangers is q blond thing, because Alpha and Beta guys are always trying to get the blond to like em.
MSGTAS on August 11, 2010 at 10:47 AM
Wow… the complete inability to grasp a point mean no further question or comment is necessary.
DrMagnolias on August 11, 2010 at 10:57 AM
Wow… another unintelligible retort
Bradky on August 11, 2010 at 11:17 AM
I’m sure it is, darlin’, I’m sure it is.
DrMagnolias on August 11, 2010 at 11:34 AM
Y’all are missing the metaphor here, courtesy of America’s pastime. Conservatives are the boyfriend; progressives are the dumb blonde bimbette; and obama’s “policies” are the baseball. Outward appearances may indicate that conservatives are douchebags, but they are obviously smart enough to get the hell out of the way of the incoming baseball, which they know is gonna hurt like hell if it hits you. And progressives, well, they just sit there, take it, and giggle.
sgtstogie on August 11, 2010 at 12:18 PM
This.
Now, give me a suggestion on how to help my daughter to see the light! Her 27 year old boyfriend gave her the keys to his car so she could go check out why the burglar alarm was going off at her house-they were out at a restaurant for dinner. He actually had the nerve to argue my husband down on why he made the right decision to stay at the restaurant.
I used to think my daughter was smart. Now I just think she’s desperate and stupid.
2L8 on August 11, 2010 at 1:04 PM
This guy is barely one notch above the tool in “Breaking Bad”. Wussy.
yubley on August 11, 2010 at 1:09 PM
Amen Gob. And once she’s given him the proverbial milk for free, she’ll bond with him like super-glue. It’s in women’s genetic code. And while this dweeb is out whoring around and punishing his liver, she’s wasting away her youth in a psuedo-relationship with him. She’ll eventually marry the dweeb, then after she’s got two kids and a dog with him, she’ll finally realize he’s no good, and end up divorced and bitter
In my 20′s this woman wouldn’t be in my dating pool, because she’s locked in with a loser like this. Then when she’s over 30 and a divorced mom, THEN she’s in my dating pool. Feh.
I wish them both well.
FlatlanderByTheLake on August 11, 2010 at 1:41 PM
Chivalry is not nor ever has been dead. Yes it has been driven underground by Yankees, and commie scum, but it is alive and well. You state
What you describe IS CHIVALRY but unlike your so-called “beta” male a chivalries man would not do this to acquire a woman’s love but simply because she is a woman! I have put myself between a woman unknown to me and a threat to her many times, and will do so as long as I am able! I do not see where this took place but I am very willing to say it took place up north, and explains this asinine notion that “chivalry is dead” IT IS ALIVE AND WELL! Except for Yankees who have never been chivalries!
Confederate on August 11, 2010 at 5:28 PM
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