Yeah, Radar had the audio
posted at 8:32 pm on July 9, 2010 by Ed Morrissey
Since I questioned Radar Online’s credibility on this story, it’s only fair to write a follow-up post now that they have presented the evidence behind it. A week ago, the gossip site said they had a recording of actor and producer Mel Gibson using the N-word in an abusive rant directed at his former girlfriend, but didn’t post it. In today’s follow-up, people can hear what certainly sounds like the very distinctive and recognizable voice of Gibson offering, er, advice to Oksana Grigorieva:
Mel Gibson was caught on tape spewing a vile, hate-filled racist rant and RadarOnline.comhas exclusively obtained the audio proof.
We broke the story that Mel told Oksana Grigorieva, the mother of his love child, “You’re an embarrassment to me. You look like a f***ing bitch in heat, and if you get raped by a pack of n***ers, it will be your fault.” RadarOnline.com had heard the tape.
Now, in a blockbuster world exclusive, RadarOnline.com is posting the audio of Mel’s disgusting outburst. You can listen to it here.
WARNING: This audio contains graphic and racist language. It has been left unedited so that the full impact of Mel’s rant can be heard.
For obvious rea$on$, Radar isn’t allowing other sites to embed the recording, so be sure to click over to listen. Here’s the transcript:
“You go out in public and it’s a f*cking embarrassment to me. You look like a f*cking bitch in heat. And if you get raped by a pack of ni**ers it will be your fault. Alright? Because you provoked it. You are provocatively dressed all the time with your fake boobs that you feel you have to show off. I don’t like it. I don’t want that woman. I don’t want you. I don’t trust you. I don’t love you.”
In the previous post, commenters debated the use of the N-word in the context of the entertainment industry, but this isn’t a shout out to his peeps. Assuming this is Gibson, the actor uses the term in an extremely derogatory sense, as if rape necessarily follows from skin color. For that matter, says that rape comes from dressing provocatively, as if it’s a rational response to tight clothing, which is hardly true and perpetuates the notion that rape is a woman’s fault. Gibson doesn’t sound noticeably intoxicated in this recording, either, unlike his anti-Semitic rant directed at a police officer during an arrest for drunk driving.
The recording does answer one question. At the time of the initial story, many wondered why someone with so much to lose would leave a message like that on a recording device. The tape makes it plain that Grigorieva recorded a live conversation, which may or may not run afoul of wiretapping laws. As I recall, California is not one of the states that requires that both parties be informed of recording telephone conversations, but I’m not sure. It may have been why Radar waited to publish the actual audio, although it’s more likely they just wanted to string out the story for a longer period.
After having heard the tape, do you think Mel Gibson’s career is over, or will this be just another celebrity scandal?
Update: If this helps make up your mind, William Morris dumped him as a client today, saying, “At this point he doesn’t seem to be in need of an agent.” Indeed.









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With the GOM about to blow up, or at least many ships over the gusher sinking due to a gas release and the CG steaming to CR…
Why is this even a thread…
Mel’s an ass…ignor’em and move on…
jerrytbg on July 9, 2010 at 9:56 PM
I would love to hear Sharpton taped secretly. Or Rev Jackson. Or Obambi.
Ugly on July 9, 2010 at 9:33 PM
Ugly: Now that would be a hoot!!!!!!!!:)
canopfor on July 9, 2010 at 9:57 PM
My dad–an Englishman–says Gibson has also hated the English…for decades. He points to the irrational, wicked, vile English characters in Gibson’s films as evidence, as well as some anti-English twistory.
I don’t know, I’m no Gibson expert–of his moves, I’ve only seen The Patriot & The Passion.
itsnotaboutme on July 9, 2010 at 9:59 PM
I kind of have to put my money where my mouth is on this one. When the Dixie Chicks slammed Dubya, I was done with them. Same with lots of other celebs (all who support Polanski, for example)…they won’t get my money. And since Mel obviously holds beliefs that are in disagreement with mine…I’m done with him too.
WaltzingMtilda on July 9, 2010 at 10:02 PM
Was Mel saying he wanted to “kill black babies”?
faraway on July 9, 2010 at 10:04 PM
I actually giggled over the t*ts comment. Like he has been in H’wood 30 yrs and didn’t recognize fakies, immediately? As for the rest of it, I think Mel doesn’t like anyone that isn’t Mel. The weird part of our culture now is how someone can say something derrogatory and be completely banished yet many musicians and stars in the past were racist, rapists, pedophiles, wife beaters and even murderers, yet still managed to have successful careers. If you count in politics and pro sports, they still can. Why is it that this is different?
di butler on July 9, 2010 at 10:07 PM
Do you want to know why our society has become so coarse, and why people have no values?
Because of the “nobody cares” and “it’s none of our business” mentality.
Gibson, like other celebrities, is a public person. He depends on the good will and financial support of the public for his success. If people who have standards for behavior wouldn’t open their wallets for him and the other famous idiots who shoot off their mouths and/or treat others badly, they would lose their popularity and their careers. And if they can’t behave like decent human beings, they should. We are not talking about the foibles we are all prone to as imperfect beings, which deserve forgiveness. We are talking about deliberately anti-social and hurtful acts that, were they to become pervasive, would make society a horrible place in which to live.
You like his movies? Fine, keep buying tickets. Just be aware of the fact that by doing so you are giving him and all the other celebrity jerks your implicit seal of approval. So why would they want to change their behavior if everyone keeps giving them a pass?
Meredith on July 9, 2010 at 10:07 PM
A PRIVATE conversation between two people??..not my business.
It’s sad that a private conversation/argument/blow-up is played for all the world to hear when it can score points for someone?!
Thank goodness the rest of us don’t have to live with that hu?!
stones,…glass houses,….???
christene on July 9, 2010 at 10:10 PM
So private conversations should be our business? All phone calls recorded? And we should all be judged accordingly?
Ugly on July 9, 2010 at 10:11 PM
Your Dad is right. Braveheart is the perfect example. The way some of the characters acted, well, it’s bad.
Mel Gibson has issues. and apparently a ton of them.
mjk on July 9, 2010 at 10:11 PM
Actually, I have never considered myself a racist, and never thought I would be. But for the past year or so of watching the race war play out in our government I am starting to reconsider. I think there may really be something different about some races. At least Obama is not doing much to erase that perception.
MikeA on July 9, 2010 at 10:14 PM
The mans got more money than God. So what Morris dropped him? He finances his own damn movies. And If he had used the N word in front of a NAACP on Martin Luther Kind Day, yeah, we may have a scandal. Otherwise, is a PC mole hill.
EZnSF on July 9, 2010 at 10:16 PM
Well, Braveheart is an entertaining movie, although it has some severe problems with historical accuracy. However, what the English did to Lowland Scots over centuries was also irrational, wicked and vile. And of course Lowland Scots could be the same toward English on the other side of the border. But I get your point though. I always got tired of those predictable pro-IRA movies from the 80s and 90s that always cast the IRA as the eternal victims and the British as the eternal oppressors.
ddrintn on July 9, 2010 at 10:16 PM
I hate how every word a celebrity says is parsed for hidden racism, but not sexism. The woman-hatred drips from Braveheart’s every word. Why is that not the point, instead of whether he used one particular term?
alwaysfiredup on July 9, 2010 at 10:22 PM
Oh no, someone used the n word. Let Al Sharpton talk about this. We got blank panthers advocating the murder of cracker babies, and we are supposed to care about this?
keep the change on July 9, 2010 at 10:22 PM
Well, I for one am glad we have the recording now. Took them long enough to get it out to us. Still not surprised when a Hollywood “bigshot” treats people with disrespect. Now, if one treated people with RESPECT, that would be news!
john1schn on July 9, 2010 at 10:25 PM
I never thought of Gibson as an idiot until he’d proven himself to be one over the last few years. If you’re a private individual you can expect your comments not to be aired nationwide, but if you’re Alec Baldwin or Mel…not so much. If you aren’t being careful about what you say you truly are an imbecile and I doubt many directors want to cast an imbecile in a movie they plan to make money on. He’s just another Lohan I guess.
scalleywag on July 9, 2010 at 10:28 PM
I appreciate what he did to get Passion of the Christ done but I think his career is over at this point. One racist rant maybe you can come back from. Note that he still hadn’t really done so from an acting standpoint at least. Two racist rants? Yeah, I think he’s done.
Benaiah on July 9, 2010 at 10:31 PM
It seems the bills are coming due for Mr. Gibson. The circle of life is on full display.
As a member of Hollywood, forgiveness is usually granted after rehab and anger management classes.
That being said, it will still be difficult for him to recover.
It appears to be his time to fade into obscurity.
rukiddingme on July 9, 2010 at 10:35 PM
What was said is no worse than could be said in any movie he as done. Does having it be in fiction that is made to reflect real life the language okay but when said in real life his career is over.
Now if he said a pack of crackers then he would have no problems.
tjexcite on July 9, 2010 at 10:49 PM
Cracker
serendip2b on July 9, 2010 at 11:08 PM
This.
Oh my God, an actor has been caught doing something stupid – after throwing away his marriage on a 20-something “single mother” with fake attributes who in fact dresses and acts like a whore. Mercy, mercy, what is this world a’comin to?
Meanwhile a murderous race-hating organization enjoying the full support of the Federal Government has a spokesman invited on television news programs to advocate killing white people(NTTAWWT.)
Grow up, America.
warbaby on July 9, 2010 at 11:09 PM
Wow. Ed thinks a celebrity’s use of non-PC language is worth a post. It’s not like nothing else is going on in the world or anything.
TMZ or HotAir…TMZ or HotAir…hard to decide.
Missy on July 9, 2010 at 11:12 PM
If anyone thinks that is a racist rant never heard any of the Rev Jeremiah Wright sermons. And he not going anywhere. Comparing Mel to Malik Zulu Shabazz and King Shabazz. Mel is very mild and did not call for Oksana death and he was not going to kill anyone else or their babies.
tjexcite on July 9, 2010 at 11:13 PM
Gibson will be dismissed as a Nazi, but Hollywood will still celebrate Roman Polanski. In fact, I think Roman Polanski could say exactly the same things Gibson said on that tape and the glitterati would all rush to defend Polanski. Because Polanski is “one of them” and Gibson isn’t.
Which is why Hollywood’s opinion isn’t worth a teaspoonful of room-temperature vomit.
Aitch748 on July 9, 2010 at 11:13 PM
I think race relations in this country needs a RESET button. While were at it, lets take all the freebies off the
table. Everyone buys their own lunch for now on. I never got the white male college fund, so lets take that off the table too. All the freebies didn;t do a damn thing. The same fights go on. They’ll always want to felt sorry for. I’ve put up with it my whole life and I’m near 50. I drive a beat up car to their Mercedes, so I don;t want to here any more whining. yes…I’ll stop too…. :)
johnnyU on July 9, 2010 at 11:14 PM
Yeah, I’m done with Mel. No excuses for him.
hawkdriver on July 9, 2010 at 11:18 PM
This is a tough one. I think Roman Polanski is a pederast who should be locked up for a good long time, but Chinatown remains one of the best films of the last four decades. I don’t really have any interest in Polanski’s recent films, but if I ceased to support the work of anyone whose views/behavior I found repulsive, there’d (sadly) be almost no movies to watch or music to listen to or art to look at.
Missy on July 9, 2010 at 11:27 PM
Oh but there are…
Do you want to be recorded without your knowledge during a phone call?
Interesting how this audio leaked, but the more damning evidence (pictures she claims to have of alleged injuries sustained) has yet to surface
Ugly on July 9, 2010 at 11:28 PM
This didn’t surprise me at all. Gibson is a loon and has been for some time. Lord only knows how many other Hollywood types are just as bad but their stardom keeps people from coming forward.
echosyst on July 9, 2010 at 11:33 PM
Tru dat.
Ugly on July 9, 2010 at 11:36 PM
Bad boyfriend, bad husband, bad baby daddy, good actor, good moviemaker. Since when has anyone given a fig about what anyone in Hollywood says or does since the Fatty Arbuckle scandal?
Queen0fCups on July 9, 2010 at 11:39 PM
Jocundus on July 9, 2010 at 11:40 PM
Just wondering, what would happen to a young women dressed in a provocative way walking through the badlands of Philly. A tourist looking person who got a flat, not a crack whore Kenzo type who belongs there.
Im a guy, and nervous as crap when I drive through. If I get in an accident there is a 50/50 chance I will lose my life. We got people dying over snow ball fights. Chicago has double digit murders on the weekend.
Im down with PC but you still have to live in reality. I know black people who wont travel through the badland.
serendip2b on July 9, 2010 at 11:43 PM
I think it’s pretty clear from the recording that this wasn’t the first time he used the term. However, I find it more disgusting that he would tell the mother of his child that she was a sl*t who deserved to be raped.
Vera on July 9, 2010 at 11:49 PM
Yup. If I wrote off every entertainer exhibiting moral-failure life would be pretty boring.
Racist-language is racist language regardless of the speaker. We agree on that point.
However the logical leap from a black man making a slur about blacks condoning others making the same slur about blacks FAILS. If you were being honest then comedians’ and rappers use of the so-called n-word would condone use of your own racially-relevant slur.
I’m curious about those who bring up this line of argument. It’s as if you’re frustrated that you don’t feel comfortable hurling unbridled racial-epithets. Are you jealous of ignoramuses who use the n-word?
Idiots who slur their own ethnicity don’t open up their entire member-group to slurs from outside just because they think it’s ok. The majority of Americans take great offense to ethnic and racial-pejoratives — rightly so.
You ever talk back to your parents? Call your brother a name? What if somebody outside of your family does the same? Race is NOT family, NOT. But people like you seem to want to make some connection between what people say and their race.
N***** and other epithets are offensiveis by default. I’m glad we have the right to use such ugly language. I’m glad we have the right speak up against it.
Is anybody really surprised by this?
You don’t feel a need to censor yourself because you enjoy using those words. I love it..another guy whining about not being brave enough to say what he feels.
What you’ve expressed is that you’re a wuss who doesn’t have the sack to use the language that is apparently weighing so heavily on his brain.
Say what you mean and don’t go crying because you’re too afraid of the consequences. Mel Gibson is a bigger man than you…all day. Even our own Jenfidel has stepped up when called out to own her wild-words. But here you are crying about what you’re too chicken to say.
The Race Card on July 9, 2010 at 11:50 PM
Mel got a second chance and blew it, big time. How can he be so stupid? This is upsetting. I actually really like him. :-(
Narutoboy on July 9, 2010 at 11:51 PM
Umm… no, wrong… try again
Ugly on July 9, 2010 at 11:52 PM
What a bizarre statement.
Ugly on July 9, 2010 at 11:56 PM
I’m going to download Mad Max.
Ugly on July 10, 2010 at 12:03 AM
Well, yeah- gotta admit racism and anti-semitism are somewhat common among blue collar White Catholic families. It’s hard not to absorb at least a little of it growing up. Think it’s a pre-Vatican 2 thing.
abobo on July 10, 2010 at 12:06 AM
I want so hard to like him, to respect him again, to defend him…
But I can’t.
Johnny 100 Pesos on July 10, 2010 at 12:09 AM
I think he is basically a good person. Is he flawed? Hell, yes. So am I. So is everybody on this thread. Big deal. I have said worse in private conversations, but I still strive to lead a good life. I will gladly see his movies.
Star20 on July 10, 2010 at 12:34 AM
Who cares? These are private conversations and it’s really nobody’s business.
I’d be more worried about her recording this stuff and making it public than anything Mel is saying while pissed off.
Metro on July 10, 2010 at 12:57 AM
this makes me sad. I remember meeting him in Sienna in the Duomo one morning..He was there with several people doing some research for The Passion..He could not have been nicer. Have liked him as an actor..hate to see this happen..but anyone with half a brain could have seen that this little Ruskie was out for the baby which means an eternal payday for her.
Xango Annie on July 10, 2010 at 1:02 AM
Whoa there, Nellie! I am from a blue collar white Catholic family and we were/are not anti-semite or racist.
Oink on July 10, 2010 at 1:19 AM
He divorced his long-time wife and took up with a girl young enough to be his daughter and you’re upset with some language?
I’m just going to ask… is it ok to freely call whites “crackers” but not ok to call blacks “the N-word?” Please explain the difference.
Oink on July 10, 2010 at 1:22 AM
I think this woman is vile for recording this and then apparently selling it(??)
You can’t do that stuff. It’s garbage. Who knows what tapes of her conversations would expose.
Also- this isn’t “racist,” and I’m sick of people twisting the word to cover anything that is even “racial.” There’s nothing inherently racist about the N word just as there’s nothing inherently racist about “cracker.”
TheBlueSite on July 10, 2010 at 1:38 AM
it’s odd that this is “mel gibson’s shocking racist rant” when the group he is most provocatively attacking here is women.
if my sister recorded a similar conversation with her husband and played it for me, i would be at her house the next day with a sheriff and a moving van whether she recognized such men pose a danger or not.
eh on July 10, 2010 at 1:46 AM
so weird.
eh on July 10, 2010 at 1:49 AM
Well, it isn’t. I could pull up at least 100 rap songs where the N word is used repeatedly. I have a feeling there’s no racism there. Not saying he’s not a racist- who knows. I’ve never asked him about his views on black folk or asian folk or latinos.
A charge of racism is a heavy thing. I say you better get the word right before you toss it around. I see nothing here that is in any way racist in the sense of the word as it’s almost universally defined.
Fact is- we don’t know what she’s said in their private conversations. We only know this one conversation, so it’s horribly unfair. It’s bad, sure, and he’s clearly an idiot, but racist? I’ve seen nothing to suggest that. And is she an angel here? No telling, as he hasn’t released private taped conversations of her.
TheBlueSite on July 10, 2010 at 1:53 AM
Bfd
meanwhile we have a REAL racist government actually determining who should get jobs or education depending on race or religion
Mel falls far back in what actually matters
Sonosam on July 10, 2010 at 2:21 AM
Aww, poor, poor Mel, once again exposed as a dangerous, repulsive creep. My heart goes out to him though – she had no business airing his dirty laundry in public like that, no matter how repugnant he may actually be!
One of the funniest aspects of this story is people giving the ‘how would you like it if someone taped one of your private recordings and then turned around and presented it to the rest of the world?’ excuses. REAL adults have the attitude that they should and will stand behind whatever they say/do, whether said/done publicly or privately. Sure, they might be embarrassed by some of their own actions, but they won’t waste anyone’s time trying to explain them away.
I am GLAD she presented this to the public – I hope she gets everything he has, whatever is left over from what his ex-wife has picked through first, that is.
Go back to Hell, Mel!
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 2:31 AM
hey … watch it there whitey!
garry on July 10, 2010 at 2:34 AM
It was a PRIVATE conversation. What kind of scumbag would record a private conversation?
Gibson makes fantastic films. I could care less if he talks like a sailor.
John the Libertarian on July 10, 2010 at 2:34 AM
all of ya…
garry on July 10, 2010 at 2:35 AM
Isn’t that just a shame that nice guy Mel could cheat on his wife with this fake-breasted, gold-digging ho, who seduced him against his will with her irrestibly hypnotic and evil eyes?
You know, I’ve heard from some reliable sources e.g. Danny Glover, Oliver Stone, Hugo Chavez, and Harry Belafonte that Fidel Castro is capable of being really nice at times, too! :)
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 2:41 AM
It is indeed a shame for I like the man`s movies in general. I rely upon him to be a good conservative director/producer and we are sure in short supply of such.
I disagree with the voting majority and wish Gibson to apologize in public. We can then see for ourselves how genuine his apology (is).
The man was mad. Pun intended.
He was angry and he used the n word. But the n word is used regularly in hip hop whether you are fidy, slim shady, or cypress hill. No apologies from these ethnically diverse folks. Correct?
But we hold Gibson to a higher standard.
I ask you why we hold him to a higher standard . . . .
This language thing from crackers to n words is confusing the hell out of me.
See? I wrote crackers. Other commenters did so as well above. But I would not use or write the n word. Guess I should not write crackers either but no one objects too much for we are not considered a “minority.”
Do note that niggardly is a proper English word and negro does mean black in both Spanish and Portuguese. Bet we avoid saying niggardly merely because it sounds similar to the n word which I cannot write here.
I meander and I apologize, but this Gibson thing is not that simple.
Well, I will finish by writing efu for the fun of it but avoiding the f word because that would not pass muster or cut the mustard either.
Sherman1864 on July 10, 2010 at 2:43 AM
I just wrote a very decent and entertaining comment but I do not see it. Why?
Sherman1864 on July 10, 2010 at 2:45 AM
Typical white person.
/
JRDFLA on July 10, 2010 at 2:47 AM
Yes, it’s more important that we focus on the fact that she publicly released what went on in private between them than the fact he is an abusive, reprehensible pig!
Say, isn’t that eerily similar to what some Democrats did when confronted with some of their memos which referenced Miguel Estrada, that were inadvertantly left unsecured on a server once? Hmmmm, I believe so…
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 2:48 AM
T
The above gets posted?? Fishy in the extreme!
Sherman1864 on July 10, 2010 at 2:49 AM
Is ‘Cracklins’ okay with you?
=)
/Nagger
Ugly on July 10, 2010 at 2:54 AM
Really? Does this quote need to be explained to you?
JRDFLA on July 10, 2010 at 2:55 AM
Re: the Lowland Scots, may one refer you to Hadrian?
OldEnglish on July 10, 2010 at 2:56 AM
Says Bizarro No. 1 (assuming that is his/her REAL name (lawlz), and he/she is brave enough to expose him/herself online
Ugly on July 10, 2010 at 2:59 AM
Spoken like a REAL adult./
OldEnglish on July 10, 2010 at 3:01 AM
i meant the two comments juxtaposed with one another. i actually think you’re more right than oink in the abstract. we should not treat words the same way we treat weapons. obviously a single word can have multiple meanings dependent on context and intent.
i think you underestimate how controversial casual use of the n-word is amongst black americans. it shows up in a lot of commercial rap, but then so does a lot of hard, gratuitous language. the 70′s-80′s argument that the n-word or the variant, “nigga” can be made beautiful, or something, when “reclaimed” as a fraternal colloquialism has lost most of it’s purchasing power. it’s treated as a swear word. there is no longer a cultural appeal in being “down” and one black person would not address a strange black person as “nigga” unless he was seeking a confrontation.
ironically, the one sure-fire way to get ordinarily averse black people to circle their wagons around the privileged use of the n-word, is for them to be lectured by a white person on what a bad word it is. and i think you can understand why. for instance, comedian paul mooney says he uses the word just because it offends white people. it offends black people that white people are offended when black people use the n-word, because it represents white people trying to control the word every bit as much as when it was used to enforce a culture of segregation and racism.
so i’d have to say that it is substantially different when a black person uses the word from when a white person uses it. further, though we could go through the specific use gibson put it to with a microscope and scalpel and explain fully why it was racist, i don’t think i’m going far out on a limb by assuming that a statement like, “you’ll be raped by a pack of n*ggers, dressed like that,” betrays some racist attitudes, along with all of the classically misogynist ones evident in his rant.
about the nature of her recording, perhaps she is not more pleasant a person than he and the recording affords her the opportunity to blend into the ether while he reveals his ugly side. so what. if gibson has any brains, we’ll soon be treated to testimony of her ugly side. it doesn’t make his ugly side pretty.
oink, i thought was altogether off-base, but then, i don’t know whether naurutoboy had ever defended or minimalized in contrast the sentiment that “cracker babies” should be killed. i suspect he hasn’t and this is just some stock challenge oink throws out whenever someone has the temerity to be offended by racist speech or behavior.
the challenge is something to the effect of, “how can you ever say this is wrong without simultaneously disclaiming this other, superficially analogous thing as wrong?” it’s a topic-changing reaction and the hidden purpose is to sabotage discussion of the first thing.
the tragic thing is that i’m sure that both oink and naurutoboy object morally to both the n-word and the c-word in somewhat similar proportions (everyone, whether they admit so in presentation or not, recognizes that the n-word is inherently a much “worse” word than the c-word for the obvious reason that black people never availed themselves of the apparatuses of the majority culture, including the state, to violently deprive whites as a group of their natural born rights, and never will). but they must pretend that this isn’t so – that one is nobly defending the group standing innocently in the firing line of the other. this is how we talk past one another on matters concerning race and never really discuss anything.
eh on July 10, 2010 at 3:08 AM
i meant the two comments juxtaposed with one another. i actually think you’re more right than oink in the abstract. we should not treat words the same way we treat weapons. obviously a single word can have multiple meanings dependent on context and intent.
i think you underestimate how controversial casual use of the n-word is amongst black americans. it shows up in a lot of commercial rap, but then so does a lot of hard, gratuitous language. the 70′s-80′s argument that the n-word or the variant, “n***a” can be made beautiful, or something, when “reclaimed” as a fraternal colloquialism has lost most of it’s purchasing power. it’s treated as a swear word. there is no longer a cultural appeal in being “down” and one black person would not address a strange black person as “n***a” unless he was seeking a confrontation.
ironically, the one sure-fire way to get ordinarily averse black people to circle their wagons around the privileged use of the n-word, is for them to be lectured by a white person on what a bad word it is. and i think you can understand why. for instance, comedian paul mooney says he uses the word just because it offends white people. it offends black people that white people are offended when black people use the n-word, because it represents white people trying to control the word every bit as much as when it was used to enforce a culture of segregation and racism.
so i’d have to say that it is substantially different when a black person uses the word from when a white person uses it. further, though we could go through the specific use gibson put it to with a microscope and scalpel and explain fully why it was racist, i don’t think i’m going far out on a limb by assuming that a statement like, “you’ll be raped by a pack of n***ers, dressed like that,” betrays some racist attitudes, along with all of the classically misogynist ones evident in his rant.
about the nature of her recording, perhaps she is not more pleasant a person than he and the recording affords her the opportunity to blend into the ether while he reveals his ugly side. so what. if gibson has any brains, we’ll soon be treated to testimony of her ugly side. it doesn’t make his ugly side pretty.
oink, i thought was altogether off-base, but then, i don’t know whether naurutoboy had ever defended or minimalized in contrast the sentiment that “cracker babies” should be killed. i suspect he hasn’t and this is just some stock challenge oink throws out whenever someone has the temerity to be offended by racist speech or behavior.
the challenge is something to the effect of, “how can you ever say this is wrong without simultaneously disclaiming this other, superficially analogous thing as wrong?” it’s a topic-changing reaction and the hidden purpose is to sabotage discussion of the first thing.
the tragic thing is that i’m sure that both oink and naurutoboy object morally to both the n-word and the c-word in somewhat similar proportions (everyone, whether they admit so in presentation or not, recognizes that the n-word is inherently a much “worse” word than the c-word for the obvious reason that black people never availed themselves of the apparatuses of the majority culture, including the state, to violently deprive whites as a group of their natural born rights, and never will). but they must pretend that this isn’t so – that one is nobly defending the group standing innocently in the firing line of the other. this is how we talk past one another on matters concerning race and never really discuss anything.
eh on July 10, 2010 at 3:13 AM
Wow, so you show you’d rather commit a logical fallacy than face my point head on – excellent job, maestro! :)
Mel’s defenders are creepy, that’s for sure!
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 3:15 AM
My last post to Ugly is applicable to you, too.
What’s more mature, having a good sense of humor and saying that taking responsibility for your own behavior, no matter how reviling it may be, is what REAL adults do, or attacking others in the process of defending unrepentent abusers like Mel while employing a bad sense of humor?
I can’t wait for your reply! /
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 3:22 AM
i don’t understand why people are so keen on defending gibson. he made one movie about jesus once. i’m not saying his other movies were all crap, but why stake a position on this at all?
his remarks are indefensible. the legalistic nonsense about whether it’s a bit shady to record and release a private conversation absolutely pales in comparison to the fact that and man in these comments would KILL the sonofabitch who spoke to his sister the way gibson spoke to this woman.
and consider the context. we’re all here at hotair.com. conservative site. …y’all are going to give gibson the acorn defense? “secretly recording conversations is wrong, i say!”
so i gotta ask: just because he made one lousy jesus movie?
eh on July 10, 2010 at 3:26 AM
Eh, I still say, when I can drive down the road and not here some punk kid in the next lane at the stoplight or 3 blocks down pounding base and the lyrics screaming epithets as bad as or worse, then I’ll have a problem with something like this being said. Also, this was a private conversation. Mr. Baggy Jeans in the car next to me doesn’t seem to care that I can overhear…so why should I persecute Mel for something that others do on a daily basis? Of course I suppose the guvment with their recent ruling implicitly condones “killing cracker babies”. This whole thing just p*sses me off!
BadMojo on July 10, 2010 at 3:27 AM
i don’t understand why people are so keen on defending gibson. he made one movie about jesus once. i’m not saying his other movies were all crap, but why stake a position in his defense at all?
his remarks are indefensible. the legalistic nonsense about whether it’s a bit shady to record and release a private conversation absolutely pales in comparison to the fact that and man in these comments would KILL the boy who spoke to his sister the way gibson spoke to this woman.
and consider the context. we’re all here at hotair. conservative site. …y’all are going to give gibson the acorn defense? “secretly recording conversations is wrong, i say!”
so i gotta ask: just because he made one lousy jesus movie?
eh on July 10, 2010 at 3:28 AM
Your wishing him to be fleeced. Punishment fit the crime?
OldEnglish on July 10, 2010 at 3:31 AM
Bah, hear not here…spell check…or actually context check!
BadMojo on July 10, 2010 at 3:33 AM
any man in these comments would KILL the f**ker who spoke to his sister the way gibson spoke to this woman.
eh on July 10, 2010 at 3:37 AM
Haven’t see the Jesus movie. in fact, I have not been to the movies since 1963 – but that’s another story.
The recording issue says something about her character.
As for Gibson, he’s a foul-mouthed, bad tempered drunk.
Hardly unique.
OldEnglish on July 10, 2010 at 3:43 AM
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 3:15 AM
Ugly on July 10, 2010 at 3:43 AM
agreed.
i suppose different people take different things from a given thing. for the sensationalist hacks, it’s his use of the n-word. for me, i immediately started considering the possibility that gibson has on occasion hit this woman very hard. the things he was saying were classic wife-beater talk.
others, inexplicably, think the worst part of this is that the lady pulled an o’keefe on gibson.
eh on July 10, 2010 at 3:51 AM
Yes, it does.
His behavior apparently isn’t limited to just verbal abuse – if it were, I’d agree with what you are getting at.
You’re someone I like here because you usually are very respectful to others while disagreeing with them, so I gather you aren’t aware RadarOnline says the audio also includes an admission from Mel that he hit her while she was holding their baby. Supposedly, he made a series of death threats against her, and knocked her 2 front teeth out, too.
I’m sorry, but from what I’ve heard/seen from him, I believe he’s guilty of the accusations. That’s why I say he should be fleeced, at the very least..
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 4:00 AM
In my case, it’s not the what, but the why. What was the intent?
O’Keefe did it to bring to light an unlawful operation, not through malice.
It should have remained a private matter – except, perhaps, for the lawyers.
OldEnglish on July 10, 2010 at 4:06 AM
Sign him up as the new Chairman of the GOP!!!
Constant Parrhesia on July 10, 2010 at 4:10 AM
The death threats, etc, are a criminal matter, and should so be dealt with.
Fleecing him would not be appropriate as a punishment because it could not be applied across the board. Do we, therefore, let poor savages off because they have no money, yet fleece the rich because they do?
His money is not the issue – his behaviour is.
As my screen name suggests, I’m very old-fashioned, and believe that each be treated equally under the law (even though it is often not the case).
OldEnglish on July 10, 2010 at 4:16 AM
I know I’m late to this parade.. But we are going to crucify Mel in a “private moment”: yet Bill Clinton gets let go for the Robert Byrd comments! You are kidding ..right?
Dire Straits on July 10, 2010 at 4:25 AM
OK, looking back at what I said, this is what I more clearly wanted it to say: “REAL adults have the attitude that they should
and willbe willing to stand behind whatever they say/do, whether said/done publicly or privately.” I apologize for any misunderstanding that might have caused.My point was that while no one likes the idea of their private conversations/behaviors being shared publicly, mature adults are willing to own up to whatever they say/do in private, if it does end up going public. Otherwise, they shouldn’t be saying/doing whatever they might be ashamed of later in the first place.
I doubt Mel is proud that his abusiveness was revealed publicly. Since there is no acceptable justification for his apparently criminal incivility, making Oksana the bigger villain here is ludicrous. I bet she probably recorded their conversations in order to prove her credibility against his future denials. It’s no different than what Linda Tripp did during Monicagate, and like the Lefties who attacked her for being a bad friend to Monica and worse, some Righties are showing the same kind of misguidedness here.
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 4:47 AM
If he was criminally abusive to her the way it appears he was, he deserves to be financially fleeced just like OJ was by the Goldman family – civilly, not criminally. That’s what I meant.
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 4:52 AM
For sure!
No one who is habitually sexist, racist, abusive, profane, & bad-tempered should criticize such behavior.
The rest of us can.
itsnotaboutme on July 10, 2010 at 5:35 AM
I find it astounding that Roman Polanski can drug and anally rape an underage girl and he receives a sickening amount of support from Hollywood. Mel Gibson uses the n-word in an angry rant and he’s toxic.
I’m not trying to excuse his language or anything, I just can’t believe that Hollywood finds the use of a derogatory term more offensive than the rape of a child.
We live in a strange, strange world.
Jay Mac on July 10, 2010 at 6:24 AM
The man is self-destructing before our eyes and ears. He is the proverbial house divided that cannot stand – himself.
Randy
williars on July 10, 2010 at 6:48 AM
Why should she get everything he has?
DrMagnolias on July 10, 2010 at 6:52 AM
(Hit submit too soon).
Why should she get everything he has? She took up with a married man whose behavior in public has not exactly been stellar. His rant about Jews took place years before they had a baby together. Who he is (whomever that might be, because we don’t know him) was no mystery to her, yet she chose a relationship with him. She is no victim.
DrMagnolias on July 10, 2010 at 6:59 AM
Interesting comments…
I worked at several studios in the Hollywood area for some twenty years; heard lots of this type of language from people of all skin color. Not shocking to me at all. The most foul crap flowing out of the mouth I ever heard was black men talking about black woman; wow, heard some foul stuff that left visions I didn’t need!
Mel’s behavior shows a lack of character and is beneath the man I wish he’d be. But hey, so what. We have a black man calling for the death of crackers and their white babies, and the news media ignores it while the DOJ refuses to prosecute. Now we have a white man talking trash to his lady and he uses the N word. Mel seems to have some trouble with his alcohol intake, and sure seems to have some trouble with his foul mouth. Other than that, who cares. I’ll take the black panther dude calling for the death of white babies more serious than a drunk mouthing off.
Keemo on July 10, 2010 at 7:28 AM
I think I would be more inclined to see his movies now.
PakviRoti on July 10, 2010 at 7:29 AM
I wonder if she had the bad nose job, over-injected lips, and fake boobs before she met Mel Gibson, or if those “improvements” were gifts from him?
AZCoyote on July 10, 2010 at 7:31 AM
I guess she deserved to have her teeth knocked out and have her life threatened because she was dumb enough to hook up with him after knowing he has serious psychological problems, one of them being that he is an adulterer? Yeah, she’s not a victim of anything at all! Do you believe all the prostitutes killed by the Green River killer weren’t victims of anything either?
In my book, a guy who would physically abuse a woman and also threaten to kill her should have everything he owns stripped from him – I’m kind of funny like that!
Bizarro No. 1 on July 10, 2010 at 7:42 AM
I love Ed and Allah’s posts but the comments at HotAir are so depressing sometimes.
Lets hit the major points that people have been relying on:
1) “It’s a private conversation.”
So were Dave Wiegel’s emails Weigel’s a little different in that his comments related to his job, but some comments are so abhorrent that we punish people for saying them. The STATE doesn’t do it. But a civilized society says, “You’re disgusting.” See also, Mr. Shabazz’s comments about 9/11 and that CNN reporter’s tweet about Hezbollah. If you cheered the CNN and WaPo firings, why are you defending Mel?
2) “It’s just some salty language”
If this isn’t racist, I don’t know what is. If you don’t get that he’s implying that n-words are prone to rape and, likely, the worst kinds of rapists, I don’t know what to tell you. This argument also suggests that you or the people you spend time with toss this sort of language about. I know the salty language I’m familiar with doesn’t extend beyond the f-word.
3) “Mel may have done this, but Obama is doing X”
Come on. If you were chewing your kid out for breaking something, would you let him off the hook if your other kid was stealing your car? No, you’d punish both of them. Should we give Obama a pass because Al-Qaeda is out there. We can only focus on and criticize one threat at a time apparently.
Some conservatives are as bad as liberals.
Trent1289 on July 10, 2010 at 8:00 AM
Mr. Gibson appears to be extremely ill. I realize that the public does really know any of these folks but it’s hard to believe that this behavior wouldn’t have alienated everyone regardless of the product he was putting out.
Cindy Munford on July 10, 2010 at 8:35 AM
My outrage meter is worn out. I’ll let the liberal entertainment industry gnash their teeth over Gibson. In the meantime, it will be my individual decision whether I will watch any of his past movies or any of his future movies (if he acts in any).
BTW: Did anyone reach Danny Glover for comment?
BuckeyeSam on July 10, 2010 at 8:37 AM
I’m just loving the spectrum of comments above. You’d think Mel would be in full image repair after the anti-semitic DUI arrest (and he’s tried, he did a hilarious self-deprecation on with Ricky Gervais on the 2010 Golden Globes). The man’s movies are riveting — Mad Max, Braveheart, Ransom, Payback, The Passion. The stunning display of idealism and brutality does not come out of thin air. I wonder if a prison movie is in his future, I’m sure it will be spectacular.
Mark30339 on July 10, 2010 at 8:45 AM
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