Lesbian teen wins lawsuit against school that canceled prom, sort of
posted at 9:38 pm on March 23, 2010 by Allahpundit
The last post I wrote about her got 800 comments, so we need closure. As I’ve said before, there’s no Equal Protection shield for sexual orientation under current jurisprudence, which means the discrimination claim is out the window. The only option? A First Amendment suit alleging that canceling the prom violated her freedom of speech. Turns out it’s a winner:
In the 12-page ruling, the court wrote, “The record shows Constance has been openly gay since eighth grade and she intended to communicate a message by wearing a tuxedo and to express her identity through attending prom with a same-sex date. The Court finds this expression and communication of her viewpoint is the type of speech that falls squarely within the purview of the First Amendment. The Court is also of the opinion that the motive behind the School Board’s cancellation of the prom, or withdrawal of their sponsorship, was Constance’s requests and the ACLU’s demand letter sent on her behalf.” Further, the court says that since the school represented the private prom being organized by parents at a furniture store as open to all students, then the court expects that event will indeed invite McMillen and her girlfriend.
An interesting wrinkle here: If McMillen hadn’t asked to wear a tux and bring a girl to the dance and the school had canceled the prom anyway, would they be on safer ground legally? I.e. if they canceled it simply because they didn’t want a lesbian in attendance, even if she promised to “act straight,” would that be okay? I’m guessing no since the discrimination is arguably even harsher in the hypothetical example, but like I say, this technically isn’t a discrimination case. It’s a speech case, and without the “expression” of sexual orientation involved in wearing a tux and bringing a same-sex date, in theory the speech claim would be weakened. The court would have to rule that simply being gay, even if you’re not communicating that fact, is itself an act of “speech” worthy of First Amendment protection — although in that case, the speech claim would be indistinguishable from a discrimination claim.
The court decided that it won’t force the school to hold a prom since there’s already a private prom in the works. (To get an injunction, you need to show irreparable harm and the fact that there’s a substitute prom here arguably means the school’s cancellation isn’t irreparable.) So all’s well that ends well? Well, not quite:
As for McMillen, she said she was happy about the ruling but doesn’t know what to expect when she returns to school. She attended classes a day after the March 10 decision to cancel the prom. But she said the hostility and comments from other students led her to miss school. She skipped class on Tuesday to go to the doctor and the fight is taking a toll, she said.
“My nerves are shot,” she said…
[Judge] Davidson said a private prom parents are planning will serve the same purpose as a school-sponsored one. He wrote that “requiring defendants to step back into a sponsorship role at this late date would only confuse and confound the community on the issue.”
McMillen isn’t sure if she’ll go to the dance.
“I’m going to school tomorrow (Wednesday) and will get a feel of how everybody feels about me. That will help me make my decision about whether I’m going to the private prom,” McMillen said. “I want to go because all my junior and senior class will be there, but I don’t want to be somewhere I’m not welcomed.”
Here she is a few days ago on Ellen DeGeneres’s show, where she got a scholarship donated by a digital media company. Note the salute to her dad. She’s lucky to have him.
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What are you even babbling about? I suppose if I said “dagger and cloak” you wouldn’t know what I was referring to, correct? Or should I say, you wouldn’t know to what I was referring. Wouldn’t want to offend your sensibilities.
Quit obfuscating, you little pustule. Either answer a question directly or go swallow an exhaust pipe.
P.S. The usual formulation uses capital letters for “P.S,” not lower-case. I don’t know what “p.s.” means because my brain is actually an old TI calculator.
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:09 PM
It’s illegal to pray at commencement exercises. You might offend somebody…
Go figure…
Skywise on March 23, 2010 at 10:09 PM
She went into the den of the beast (liberalism) and they are showing her “tolerance”.
Coulter grates on my nerves, but she speaks truth to power,and if a person can’t give a speech, in a civilized society without the liberals falling into a rock & stick throwing neanderthals than our world is regressing.
portlandon on March 23, 2010 at 10:09 PM
So if you want to ‘make a speech’, I’m obligated to provide a venue? Am I also obligated to listen? I think this court is stretching things a bit.
GarandFan on March 23, 2010 at 10:10 PM
As a federal District Court Judge, I would send you to jail! Everyone knows that the only things to learn at school are sex, hating your country, hating your parents for screwing up the environment, and baby seals. You were taught by morons probably in a Catholic school.
GTR640 on March 23, 2010 at 10:10 PM
Oh, I knew what you were referring to. But you didn’t know what you were referring to.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:10 PM
Did you all notice that Ellen had no problem with a guy going to the prom in a dress? I don’t want to mean…..but that’s weird. A guy wearing a dress to the prom is weird.
terryannonline on March 23, 2010 at 10:11 PM
Roth was superseded by Miller. To quote professor Wiki:
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:12 PM
Bah. I have problems caring any more. People can do what they want, no one should be discriminated against, but on that note the “We’re all the same, but notice me for how different I am” shtick is getting old.
StoutRepublican on March 23, 2010 at 10:12 PM
But crr, you yourself said that “dubious legal theory” is acceptable in matters of “obvious injustice.” Which Justice was it that instituted the “obvious injustice” standard, exactly? Was that Justice Skeletor, or perhaps Chief Justice McCheese?
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:12 PM
Then homeschool! It’s awesome! The best decision my wife and I ever made! We were intimidated at first, but then we learned how to pick good curriculum and it’s awesome!
If you send your kids to public school they’re not only learning the government’s opinion on sex, but also history, government, ethics and self-identity. Even if the school is “good,” they’re still being fed this crap.
29Victor on March 23, 2010 at 10:13 PM
How is that relevant? Roth established obscenity isn’t constitutionally protected speech. Are you asserting that having sex in a school hallway would be protected under the Roth test but not protected under the Miller test? If not….why bother bringing it up?
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:14 PM
When?
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:14 PM
Err, iirc, there can be no mandatory prayer, when all students are compelled to observe a moment of silence or some such. But I have yet to hear about anyone being denied the right to pray, even openly in groups, on school grounds. I could see where teachers couldn’t lead prayers either, or any faculty or staff for that matter. But I’m open to being corrected.
Aquateen Hungerforce on March 23, 2010 at 10:14 PM
Did you mean to say “I knew to what you were referring” and “But you didn’t know to what you were referring,” counselor? Reason grammar proper for a there is.
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:15 PM
Don’t stop caring. This leads to the dark-side.
And you’re right; people have been infatuated about getting their 15 minutes in the spotlight.
Electrongod on March 23, 2010 at 10:15 PM
This is a very wise Judge!
GTR640 on March 23, 2010 at 10:15 PM
So, if she’s engaged in sexually activity before the age of consent in Mississippi, can she be prosecuted for rape of a child? Card carrying sexual predator? Seems that teens emailing nude photos of themselves get branded as sexually something or another for life after prosecution.
I’ve got no problem with her life choices, but seems that there are a lot of flags on the ground and the refs aren’t blowing the whistles.
Robert17 on March 23, 2010 at 10:16 PM
I’ll stop you right there… That isn’t an argument based on the wording of the Constitution.
MeatHeadinCA on March 23, 2010 at 10:16 PM
Suffering from short-term memory loss, crr? I’ve heard meth has that effect.
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:16 PM
Roth is no longer the standard to determine obscenity. That’s all.
Geez. I was just adding a little more information. You’d think I committed a war crime.
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:16 PM
Apparently according to ameripundit, I shouldn’t cite Roe for the general proposition that a woman has a right to abortion, because Roe has been qualified and narrowed in later cases. Brilliant.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:17 PM
http://www.indy.com/posts/greenwood-high-school-faces-suit-over-prayer
Skywise on March 23, 2010 at 10:17 PM
How dare you question her sexual identity assertions of expressions! It is good for her! Rape laws apply to men, not happy young lesbians, you stupid yokel! Off to jail!
GTR640 on March 23, 2010 at 10:17 PM
It doesn’t fit the narrative of mainstreaming every perverse behavior. All a part of the left’s war on the individual and the family.
Keep voting democrat!
daesleeper on March 23, 2010 at 10:18 PM
http://news.yahoo.com/s/csm/20100322/ts_csm/289372_1
No Ave Maria at commencement. Interesting world in which we live.
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:18 PM
When did I say I approved of it the use of a dubious legal theory?
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:18 PM
Is that the type of argument you’re going to use in the courtroom, counselor?
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:18 PM
Canadians? The liberals and media here in Wake County/Raleigh are in full melt-down mode as the school board has finally (after last November’s election and we, the good guys took control) ended the ridiculous busing policy.
Side note: This is how we take back our country. The local races. School boards, city council, county council, board of commisioners, etc.
SouthernGent on March 23, 2010 at 10:18 PM
Great, good luck with that approach.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:19 PM
You are certifiable
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:19 PM
So calling it a “remedy to an obvious injustice” is supposed to signify disapproval?
I guess you didn’t take any semiotics courses in undergrad, eh?
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:20 PM
crr6, are you talking to someone or just showing off?
GTR640 on March 23, 2010 at 10:20 PM
I homeshcool and it is awesome. You get to teach your children how to think, not what to think, and you can help them learn their strengths and teach to them….. Save the money and your children. Watch the private schools some are just as bad as public schools, the uniforms are just a bit nicer. If you are planning on a religious school, (like through a church) make sure the teachers are actually members of the church. In our area we recently had a private school teacher who was arrested for drug posession and sexual misconduct with her students. As your child’s own teacher, that will probably never happen (unless of course you are into that kinda stuff).
kringeesmom on March 23, 2010 at 10:21 PM
I take it toupee’s aren’t involved?
Fighton03 on March 23, 2010 at 10:21 PM
It’s not about luck or strategy, crr6. It’s about following the Constitution … something we should all want to do.
Again, you can’t make that argument, because you know there is no such argument to be made. You can cite as many court cases as you want, but at the end of the day, you fail at even beginning to answer the actual question. Now, good luck with that.
MeatHeadinCA on March 23, 2010 at 10:22 PM
if she does go to the prom what measures are they going to take to make sure she doesn’t use her lesbian powers? Lesbian kryptonite ain’t cheap.
happyfeet on March 23, 2010 at 10:22 PM
All of you homeschoolers are going to jail. Period. If you think for one second you’re gonna be allowed to brainwash your kids into hating the State you have got another thing coming. O
GTR640 on March 23, 2010 at 10:22 PM
It seems to me with all of the schools so short of money having a dance may not be such a great idea anyway.
kringeesmom on March 23, 2010 at 10:23 PM
It didn’t signify approval or disapproval. I just pointed out what happened.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:23 PM
give it up B+…lost cause
Fighton03 on March 23, 2010 at 10:23 PM
What a piece of work that girl is: an attention whore and a deviant. What happened to the days where people kept things private??? Why do deviant people feel the need to annoy others with their actions?
theenforser on March 23, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Thank GOD… I was a victim of socialist-utopian experimentation regarding busing. It didn’t work AT ALL. They bused the poor black kids to the not so poor white kids school (because the rich white kids schools got lawyers to deflect the busing to us). So the black kids got bused 30 minutes out of their way and then… ate lunch and hung around with the kids from their neighborhood. We barely integrated at all. The school, meanwhile, had to enact lockdown procedures and increasingly took away our school liberties because of all the discipline problems tha arose. Several race riots took place as well but were NEVER publicized or talked about.
Skywise on March 23, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Question. Are you Allahpundit, or did he let you in here after he realized he wouldn’t make his 800 comment goal?
MeatHeadinCA on March 23, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Please. You are such a liar and spinner. Hilarious.
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:25 PM
Speaking personally, I’m glad this girl’s out of the closet this early. One less golddigger for my teenage son to potentially have to deal with.
But on the more important point, the school and the good guy parents should just let it happen. The kids are far more judgemental than are we.
TXUS on March 23, 2010 at 10:25 PM
The original prom was run by the school. It was canceled. Now this judge is saying the fact that there is a private prom open to all students is a remedy. How? They aren’t party to this case. If a local loon said “Hey, I’ll give her a prom” would that suffice? If this ridiculous ruling by this judge is correct then the offending party should have to make reparations. If I steal your car a judge can’t say I owe you nothing because you brother gave you another. The school should be forced to hold a prom. The judge didn’t do that. Why? Because the school isn’t legally required to hold any prom. The judge can no more force them to hold it than require they replay a basketball game because a court finds a student players suspension illegal.
An injunction against what? Not doing something? Is the school supposed to force other students to attend a party with her?
This girl’s freedom of speech was violated? Would the judge have made the same decision if the school canceled the prom because all the Indian students announced they would be attending the prom in a loincloth?
This victory is a total joke. Purely manufactured for the press and to intimidate other schools. it wouldn’t stand for 5 seconds on appeal.
So now we have Speech violations with no actual communications? Incredible.
Now she doesn’t even know if she will go to the prom. But she gets to be on Ellen and gets a scholarship. I wonder what this was REALLY all about.
Rocks on March 23, 2010 at 10:25 PM
Agreed.
MeatHeadinCA on March 23, 2010 at 10:25 PM
Don’t cite Roe on a particular case of what abortions are permitted if a subsequent SCOTUS case narrowed what abortions are permitted.
Silly me, I thought when discussing obscenity being a disqualifier it might be interesting to note the latest legal standard of what an obscenity is.
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:25 PM
MeatHeadinCA on March 23, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Someone left the door open at the Asylum.
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:25 PM
So do you approve or disapprove of the ruling? It’s so rare to get the legal opinion of a first year law student, so I’d love to know what you think.
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:26 PM
Attention?????
Based on her chosen lifestyle, it’s apparent there’s a kink in her noodle.
theenforser on March 23, 2010 at 10:26 PM
Thanks for the link, but that seems to be saying you cannot broadcast or force others to listen to your prayers. Maybe it’s just a disconnect in how we see prayer, but I’ve always found that closing my eyes and being quite worked for me when I felt the urge.
Aquateen Hungerforce on March 23, 2010 at 10:26 PM
You will have to pry my child out of my cold dead hands before I turn her over to the state. Thank goodness homeschooling is constitutionally protected in our state (for as long as it lasts anyway)
kringeesmom on March 23, 2010 at 10:27 PM
Nah, in the Honorable crr’s courtroom you just pick a precedent out of a hat and run with it.
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:28 PM
US grants German homeschoolers asylum. Will others follow?
Homeschooling is illegal in GER.
daesleeper on March 23, 2010 at 10:28 PM
I believe it was an attempt at humor. I think GTR640 got into the glue again.
29Victor on March 23, 2010 at 10:28 PM
And yeah, no Ave Maria at schools. Teaches facing prison time for praying at school. No adult-lead prayer during a school activity. No prayer at graduation.
But the lesbian student can tell the world about her sexuality at an official school event. And the school has to just suck it up because of First Amendment rights.
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:28 PM
Free speech as long as you’re quiet.. eh?
Skywise on March 23, 2010 at 10:29 PM
Interesting lawsuit regarding students and free speech.
http://alliancedefensefund.org/news/story.aspx?cid=5235
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:29 PM
kringeesmom on March 23, 2010 at 10:27 PM
Worry not, the state does as crappy of a job at education as it does at, well, pretty much everything else (soon to be – health care!).
Only the in the case of the hopelessly inane, does the liberalism take.
NoDonkey on March 23, 2010 at 10:29 PM
That’s nice. Don’t bother to respond, because the feeling isn’t mutual.
I think the ruling is stupid as f*ck. But I like the result.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:29 PM
, no Ave Maria at schools. Teaches facing prison time for praying at school. No adult-lead prayer during a school activity. No prayer at graduation.
But the lesbian student can tell the world about her sexuality at an official school event. And the school has to just suck it up because of First Amendment rights.
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:28 PM
theenforser on March 23, 2010 at 10:30 PM
No, your statement “Looks like a textbook case of a court using a dubious legal theory to grant a remedy for an obvious injustice. Good for the kid” indicates you approval. What part of “Good for the kid” didn’t you understand.
fumduck.
Fighton03 on March 23, 2010 at 10:30 PM
So telepathy is protected speech, at least. Good to know. Let’s inform Professor X!
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:30 PM
Nah, you’re right it was fine. Sorry for jumping on you.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:30 PM
You and I know CRR gave her answer already. She is so full of bull*hit.
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:31 PM
umm…that called approval doofus.
Fighton03 on March 23, 2010 at 10:31 PM
daesleeper wake up. Portlandon, Coulter did go into a part of Canada that is a hot bed of Canadian liberalism but did so at the behest of conservatives in Canada. Like her or dislike her it took American convervative guts on her part to do it. She has another speech scheduled for a hot bed of American type conservatism, the province of Alberta.
In future commenters at Hot Air should be refrain from lumping all Canadians into one lump for it would be as stupid as calling U.S. Democrat liberals and Rebulican conservatives the same thing.
Basil Fawlty on March 23, 2010 at 10:31 PM
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:29 PM
Say these words three times:
“Have you been injured in an accident?”
And all your dreams will come true.
NoDonkey on March 23, 2010 at 10:32 PM
To be clear, I have no problem with her being open about her sexuality. I just don’t like the double-standard when it comes to Free Speech.
I’m kind of from the school of Penn & Teller on this one. (Language warning.)
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:32 PM
How? I can disagree with the legal reasoning and still like the result. The fact that I like the result doesn’t mean I approve of the reasoning. Doofus.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:33 PM
Lo siento mi amigo. Los canadienses no son un grupo homogéneo.
daesleeper on March 23, 2010 at 10:34 PM
Do I hear the link ban hammer? Nay, if our VP can say these words… :)
Electrongod on March 23, 2010 at 10:36 PM
Don’t worry, America. Your legal future is in great hands.
Since you have obvious problems with connotation, I’m not sure how perceptive you are of sarcasm, so let me assure you that I respect the legal opinion of Courtney Love and Koko the Gorilla more than I do your own, crr.
Good Solid B-Plus on March 23, 2010 at 10:36 PM
I didn’t take offense, I merely quoted a bumper sticker.
kringeesmom on March 23, 2010 at 10:37 PM
Yes, good for Biden for using the AnninCA-word.
MeatHeadinCA on March 23, 2010 at 10:37 PM
I hope not. We get NSFW links all the time on here.
amerpundit on March 23, 2010 at 10:37 PM
Don’t be so sensitive. Overall Canada is much more liberal and that is sadly a fact. So I will continue to make my statements. Canada’s view towards FREE SPEECH is IN FACT much less respectful than the USAs. I suspect you know that and are being obtuse.
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:40 PM
Not worried, just taking responsibility for the care and feeding of my munchkin, plus I want her to get a great education.
kringeesmom on March 23, 2010 at 10:41 PM
Spoken like a true lawyer. Holder may have a position for you.
Electrongod on March 23, 2010 at 10:42 PM
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:33 PM
How much of a drain on society do you aspire to be?
John Edwards or Marsha Clark?
NoDonkey on March 23, 2010 at 10:42 PM
How? I can disagree with the legal reasoning and still like the result. The fact that I like the result doesn’t mean I approve of the reasoning. Doofus.
crr6 on March 23, 2010 at 10:33 PM
Spoken like a true lawyer. Holder may have a position for you.
Electrongod on March 23, 2010 at 10:42 PM
So she can approve and disapprove at the same time. She sounds more like Clinton.
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:44 PM
Thank you mi amigo.
Basil Fawlty on March 23, 2010 at 10:45 PM
Eeek. She kisses girls?
faraway on March 23, 2010 at 10:47 PM
Typical liberal response.
“oh, poor baby, your feelings hurt? here is a Scholarship.”
jawkneemusic on March 23, 2010 at 10:48 PM
CWforFreedom on March 23, 2010 at 10:44 PM
Clinton could teach her a thing or two.
And then something about the law.
NoDonkey on March 23, 2010 at 10:48 PM
So a 3.86 GPA doesn’t deserve a scholarship? Glad you went to Harvard, but the way most kids are going today, that’s practically a miracle.
Tanya on March 23, 2010 at 10:49 PM
A tux does not equal free speech.
What if the swim team demanded to show in their speedos?What if 4-H members wanted to wear their bib overalls and mucky work boots?
What part of dress code is unclear?
Laura in Maryland on March 23, 2010 at 10:56 PM
Yeah, but he’ll have to bring his own knee pads.
Laura in Maryland on March 23, 2010 at 10:57 PM
And she would have received this if the school had held the prom and she attended? How many ghey 17 teen year olds are out there with 4.00 averages who won’t get a dime? She didn’t get this for her GPA. Scholarship had nothing to do with it.
It was probably a payoff. I beginning to think this entire thing was arranged with even the school complicit. The whole thing stinks. Why was anyone even talking about the prom in February anyway? Are there a lot of students who announce their prom intentions 4 months ahead of time to Vice Principles?
Rocks on March 23, 2010 at 10:59 PM
Basil Fawlty on March 23, 2010 at 10:59 PM
Pssssst! Shhhhh! That’s really crrrrr69696969!
Vince on March 23, 2010 at 11:00 PM
Scratch ‘practically’.
Even now the staff at my old HS is valiantly fighting all manner of pressure for grade-inflation and social promotion…apparently certain students are incredibly resistant to the white man’s education.
Dark-Star on March 23, 2010 at 11:00 PM
I hope she has a good time at the dance… She earned it…
Khun Joe on March 23, 2010 at 11:00 PM
If you’re a lesbian in Mississippi?
Tanya on March 23, 2010 at 11:01 PM
Why would any bother to care about this when we just lopped off at the knees !
Pick your battles people! Find some libertarian in you.
I’m not a libertarian but really .. who cares about a lesbian wanting to go to a prom with her gf?
We have much bigger and nastier contests to win.
FOCUS MAN!
amend2 on March 23, 2010 at 11:02 PM
Why do we have government schools again? Seriously, why?
How many thousands of times does it have to go wrong before you people learn that government schools are only workable and just for a society with one culture, not a society with zero or 100 cultures.
Let the lesbians start their own school and the Mormons can start theirs and everyone will live their own lives and be in charge of their own children.
Kohath on March 23, 2010 at 11:03 PM
Kohath on March 23, 2010 at 11:03 PM
What fun would that be?
Then a lesbian going to the prom, wouldn’t be cause for a media firestorm?
The school might actually do boring stuff like, I don’t know, educating the children or something.
Where’s the thrill in that?
NoDonkey on March 23, 2010 at 11:07 PM
I tell you who cares, I do. The ruling is a complete piece of garbage. Judges should not be allowed to do this. You have a problem with Obamacare. Well that possible because judges made a million stupid crappy rulings like this that were never challenged which establish legal precedent for it.
Rocks on March 23, 2010 at 11:07 PM
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