Video: Worst Valentine’s Day move ever? Update: fake

posted at 8:23 pm on February 14, 2010 by Ed Morrissey

Via Jammie Wearing Fool, it’s almost too painful to watch, except that it’s so compelling you’ll watch all three replays. Ever wonder what would happen if one of those high-profile, uber-public proposals went awry? This clip’s for you, where Valentine’s Day magic shows its limits, which is apparently a marriage proposal in the middle of … a hockey game?

That has to be an icing call, because her walkoff is just so cold. Of course, she didn’t ask her date to put her in the position of having to answer the most important question of her life in between power plays, on the JumboVision, while everyone in the arena held their breath, or at least their beers. JWF says a hockey game might have been a poor choice on the romance meter, but the young woman is wearing a team jersey; maybe it wasn’t the venue, but her date’s game that was the problem.

Either way, let this be a lesson. Unless you’re sure of the answer, prospective suitors should consider the YouTube age before popping the question at a sporting event.

Update: A lot of you were wondering whether this was a hoax. Good call:

Showing that the Rangers’ wit is about as razor-sharp as their 10th-place hockey team, that fan marriage proposal gone horribly wrong on Sunday at the Garden turned out Monday to be a wisecrack gone dismally right.

When a woman sitting at the Seventh Ave. end during Sunday’s Rangers-Lightning walked out of the arena on a man who ostensibly had asked her to marry him on the Gardenvision screen, it looked like a brutal turn in a relationship played out in agonizing public view.

In fact, a source said Monday, it was an inside joke cooked up by game-presentation staff and carried out by paid actors who are, in real life, engaged.

The 18,198 in the Garden, and at least one newspaper beat writer? Those were the patsies.

Oh, come on, Michael Obernauer; it wasn’t that bad of a promotion — it was just pathetic.  It hardly holds a candle to Disco Demolition Night, or to the world’s largest sundae that I believe the Atlanta Braves created in the 70s that almost drowned a local DJ who appeared for the promotion.

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I went to the fights and a hockey game broke out!!!!!!

jbh45 on February 14, 2010 at 8:27 PM

Go Penguins!

badpenguin on February 14, 2010 at 8:27 PM

Oh, that’s cold!!!

Knucklehead on February 14, 2010 at 8:28 PM

I smell hoax.

Or is that Grow Fins. Either way it stinks.

CWforFreedom on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

Oh,,, Dude… body checked into the boards…. and he’s down…

But dam… send her to the penalty box as well…

Romeo13 on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

Ouch–that’s gonna leave a mark….

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

That was probably ill-considered. I wonder if he stayed and watched the rest of the game?

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

Has this weekend been that slow?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

Allah,

Were you embarrassed by her rejection?

Tim Burton on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

Maybe her name isn’t Melissa?

conservative pilgrim on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

That looks staged.

Denverslim on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

Meh. I’ve had my fill of public embarrassment from the White House without watching this dude get shot down in flames. He didn’t start crying did he? I meant the rejected dude, not Obama.

Guardian on February 14, 2010 at 8:31 PM

Wow.

Zorro on February 14, 2010 at 8:31 PM

I smell hoax.

Or is that Grow Fins. Either way it stinks.

CWforFreedom on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

Ay Caramba, Mr. Big himself.
The fish stinks from the head down.

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:31 PM

I’ve seen a few of these. I always wonder if they are staged.

Mark1971 on February 14, 2010 at 8:32 PM

I have a friend who asked his then girl-friend to marry him at a Titans game. Luckily, she said yes.

ladyingray on February 14, 2010 at 8:32 PM

I think “Blue Shirt” was their code word for ‘fisting’ and she wasn’t in the mood…

What?

It’s Valentine’s Day for Pete’s sake!

Seven Percent Solution on February 14, 2010 at 8:34 PM

http://failblog.org/2010/02/12/valentines-day-special-fail/

Here is a video compilation of public proposal rejections.

Mark1971 on February 14, 2010 at 8:34 PM

A marriage proposal in the middle of … a hockey game?

Not so bad. At least it wasn’t in the middle of “Debbie Does Dallas.”

petefrt on February 14, 2010 at 8:34 PM

fake.

abobo on February 14, 2010 at 8:34 PM

Has this weekend been that slow?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

We could use an Olympic ‘Open Thread’…

Ed, what do you say?

Seven Percent Solution on February 14, 2010 at 8:35 PM

Ouch–that’s gonna leave a mark….

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

As in …bruise or skid?

katy on February 14, 2010 at 8:36 PM

I’ve been to about 50 games at Yankee Stadium over the last 3 seasons. About half of them involved a marriage proposal posted on the scoreboard between innings. The bride always seems to say ‘yes’. The crowd always starts a chorus of ‘don’t do it’. Fun stuff…

joejm65 on February 14, 2010 at 8:37 PM

I smell hoax.

Or is that Grow Fins. Either way it stinks.

CWforFreedom on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

Can’t be Growy… not only is this guy on a date…

But its a Girl…

Romeo13 on February 14, 2010 at 8:37 PM

El_Terrible on February 14, 2010 at 8:33 PM

Oh man, that’s painful to watch LOL!

Knucklehead on February 14, 2010 at 8:39 PM

We could use an Olympic ‘Open Thread’

Seven Percent Solution on February 14, 2010 at 8:35 PM

I was hoping canopfor was here. ‘The Simpsons’ were all about curling tonight.

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:40 PM

that’s gotta be how obama felt when copenhagen dumped him for Rio.

Iced….

ted c on February 14, 2010 at 8:41 PM

Her reaction reeks of FAKE!

SouthernGent on February 14, 2010 at 8:41 PM

Do you see that look on her face…

It’s called ‘disgust’.

I have a feeling, if this is true, that this tool has some issues and a history of this sort of stuff, and their relationship is a ship that is taking on water.

But that’s just me…

… sitting here single, typing on my keyboard to a bunch of strangers, whilst my son is with his Mom for the weekend, on Valentine’s Day.

(I’ve got to clean this house, too much dust in the air causing strange water to come from my eyes.)

Seven Percent Solution on February 14, 2010 at 8:42 PM

Allah,

Were you embarrassed by her rejection?

Tim Burton on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

post of the day

Darth Executor on February 14, 2010 at 8:42 PM

ehhhh….you didn’t need that slut anyway.

hisfrogness on February 14, 2010 at 8:43 PM

I was hoping canopfor was here. ‘The Simpsons’ were all about curling tonight.

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:40 PM

Ahh, curling. The most stupid game on the face of the planet. Except for golf.

Now, I like Irish Hurling — that’s a game

I did a little hurling back in my University days, but it wasn’t quite the same…

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 8:43 PM

How much does something like that cost?

myrenovations on February 14, 2010 at 8:43 PM

Perhaps she got mad when he told her she had to say yes.

technopeasant on February 14, 2010 at 8:45 PM

I guess she hadn’t had enough to drink.

txag92 on February 14, 2010 at 8:46 PM

Ahh, curling. The most stupid game on the face of the planet.

I did a little hurling back in my University days, but it wasn’t quite the same…

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 8:43 PM

How dare you, sir! You take that back, mister!

I did some hurling the last couple of days. But that was due to bad lasagne. Lemme tell ya.

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:46 PM

That is brutal. I would never pull something like that because I would probably have to hang myself afterwards.

Southernblogger on February 14, 2010 at 8:47 PM

How much does something like that cost?

myrenovations on February 14, 2010 at 8:43 PM

Monetarily or dignity?

txag92 on February 14, 2010 at 8:47 PM

If it’s real then for all we know it could’ve been their first date, some guys are like that.

This type proposal is not a good idea unless the guy is 100% sure the woman is going to say yes, too embarrasing for everyone involved.

beachgirlusa on February 14, 2010 at 8:47 PM

SouthernGent on February 14, 2010 at 8:41 PM

Excuse me, Southern, but are you Bill Randall? or are you just promoting him?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:48 PM

Obviously, Nick doesn’t have “game”…

ladyingray on February 14, 2010 at 8:49 PM

This type proposal is not a good idea unless the guy is 100% sure the woman is going to say yes, too embarrasing for everyone involved.

beachgirlusa on February 14, 2010 at 8:47 PM

Don’t tell that to Obozo when he went to Copenhagen.

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:49 PM

embarrasing embarrassing

beachgirlusa on February 14, 2010 at 8:49 PM

Doh! This guy is going to have to surrender his twig and berries.

ronsfi on February 14, 2010 at 8:49 PM

Happens at basketball games too: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtPkxzHKLpk

illustro on February 14, 2010 at 8:49 PM

How much does something like that cost?

Monetarily or dignity?

LOL

beachgirlusa on February 14, 2010 at 8:50 PM

He’s either the biggest fool in NY today, or the luckiest guy in town for being rejected by her. Count your lucky stars bro, she’s just not right for you. Or, then again, maybe it’s just you. Back to politics anyone?

b3026 on February 14, 2010 at 8:51 PM

I heard about this driving into Manhattan this afternoon. From what the reporter indicated it was a rather awkward moment and didn’t think it was a setup. I used an expert to judge the video–my wife. She’s thinks it’s legit and who am I to cross her on a day like this? Then again she had a couple glasses of wine and laughed her a– off at the video.

For the record I proposed to her on a nice summer evening after a romantic dinner. I think I had the veal.

JammieWearingFool on February 14, 2010 at 8:52 PM

Failure is not an option.

Just a possibility.

NCC on February 14, 2010 at 8:54 PM

Allah,

Were you embarrassed by her rejection?

Tim Burton on February 14, 2010 at 8:30 PM

You asuming alot.

1 That Allah likes Hockey

2 That Allah wants to get Married

3 That Allah can get a girl to go out with him.

William Amos on February 14, 2010 at 8:56 PM

Epic fail.

CP on February 14, 2010 at 8:57 PM

B+

ConservativeTony on February 14, 2010 at 8:58 PM

Seven Percent Solution on February 14, 2010 at 8:42 PM

But you are in good company here, my friend…

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 8:58 PM

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:46 PM

Actually, I played Curling once — was too stupid to say “no” when asked to substitute for somebody, even though I didn’t know the first f’n thing about curling.

My sporting successes are few, but for some reason, I was able to put that rock exactly where the Skip wanted it. 100% of the time. My technique was probably laughable, but we won the tournament. Got a cheap trinket for a prize, and never played again.

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 9:00 PM

Ouch–that’s gonna leave a mark….

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM
As in …bruise or skid?

katy on February 14, 2010 at 8:36 PM

I’d say about the size of her shoe….

PS–Are you on FB?

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 9:00 PM

You asuming alot.

1 That Allah likes Hockey

2 That Allah wants to get Married

3 That Allah can get a girl to go out with him.

William Amos on February 14, 2010 at 8:56 PM

.
Hehehe! +2

ted c on February 14, 2010 at 9:02 PM

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 9:00 PM

Yah, but I don’t know how to use it… HA!

katy on February 14, 2010 at 9:03 PM

3 That Allah can get a girl to go out with him.

William Amos on February 14, 2010 at 8:56 PM

Allah does like the big ones and Melissa seemed to fit that description. just sayin’

thomasaur on February 14, 2010 at 9:03 PM

She made like a hockey stick and got the puck outta there.
LOL!

TN Mom on February 14, 2010 at 9:03 PM

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 9:00 PM

I first saw it on TV when I was a kid. It was similar to a game we used to play called ‘Rebound’, a board game of sorts.
Since the only thing else that was on was a political ’roundtable’, well, what was I gonna watch?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 9:06 PM

Help me out here. Why is it that when I ask someone a question, they split?
Hello.
SouthernGent?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 9:08 PM

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 9:08 PM

SG is a supporter of Randall.

thomasaur on February 14, 2010 at 9:10 PM

Poor Allah. Be nice to him when he comes back.

misterpeasea on February 14, 2010 at 9:10 PM

It seems like they have these every 2 years or so. I’m beginning to think they are just staged.

JellyToast on February 14, 2010 at 9:10 PM

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 8:58 PM

Thank you my friend!

Speaking of Valentine’s Day…

Did anyone else catch Tom Hammond and Scott Hamilton’s interview last night on the Olympic coverage of figure skating? (hint, hint Ed)

Tom looked like a bull queer in prison that just got some fresh meat, and Scott kept his hands over his a%s…

BBBWWWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA…!!!

I’m telling you, with all the quick witted folks around here, this could get epic.

Seven Percent Solution on February 14, 2010 at 9:10 PM

Any relation to the balloon boy family?

I smell a reality show….

Braindroppings on February 14, 2010 at 9:10 PM

SG is a supporter of Randall.

thomasaur on February 14, 2010 at 9:10 PM

I’m wondering if I could have once voted for Bill Randall someplace else?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 9:12 PM

More like: “Be My BlueBalls Bride”……..

David2.0 on February 14, 2010 at 9:14 PM

The system worked.

I suspect he had a reception hall booked and everything and bushwhacking her in a public situation might force her to cave to our chubby Romeo.

BL@KBIRD on February 14, 2010 at 9:14 PM

TN Mom

LOL

beachgirlusa on February 14, 2010 at 9:20 PM

Ah who cares anyway!. I did not watch cause I don’t care…..
I go the game to watch, not to ask my GF for her hand in marriage….
5 minute major for delay of game
10 game misconduct for proposing at a hockey game!

Where is are you priorities????

hawkman on February 14, 2010 at 9:23 PM

these are stunts that the arenas put on, been done in lots of places

commodore on February 14, 2010 at 9:28 PM

10 game misconduct for proposing at a hockey game!

Where is are you priorities????

hawkman on February 14, 2010 at 9:23 PM

Yea, what he said. And, it’s not really cool to ask your cousin to be your bride anyway.

b3026 on February 14, 2010 at 9:29 PM

good for her. What a coercive, manipulative controlling jerk.

John the Libertarian on February 14, 2010 at 9:29 PM

katy on February 14, 2010 at 9:03 PM

Click on my name here, and you will find me on fb…

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 9:30 PM

Where is are you priorities????

hawkman on February 14, 2010 at 9:23 PM

Probably where you left your “preview” button… ;)

katy on February 14, 2010 at 9:30 PM

Cold steel on ice.

Jaibones on February 14, 2010 at 9:30 PM

Ahh, curling. The most stupid game on the face of the planet. Except for golf.

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 8:43 PM

Stupider than dwarf tossing? I didn’t think that was possible.

UltimateBob on February 14, 2010 at 9:31 PM

It’s a real stupid thing to do. Public proposals work on the same psychology as stage hypnotists, in which the audience participant goes along with whatever the hypnotist wants them to do just because they don’t want to create a scene and ruin the show for the performer. Who wants to be the one who stands up and says “sorry, this just ain’t working! You’re a fraud!”

Similarly, people who propose live on TV etc are counting on the fact that their intended won’t have the guts to say “no” in front of all of those people and ruin the moment for everyone.

I think this woman was totally hip to the psychological number being played on her. She didn’t want to say yes, she didn’t want to say no, she was just p!ssed that he would even do such a thing and put her on the spot like that. The doofus obviously wasn’t confident enough to ask her in private, so he figured he’d load the dice to his advantage. Bad move dude. I wonder how things have transpired for him since.

Sharke on February 14, 2010 at 9:36 PM

I don’t understand the appeal of these public proposals. Why would someone want the whole viewing audience to share their private moment? Ick.

It looked to me as if she was appalled.

jix on February 14, 2010 at 9:37 PM

Here’s a link to a similar stunt at a basketball game 2 years ago. It looks almost like the same girl. And I know this video was not the first time either.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtPkxzHKLpk

JellyToast on February 14, 2010 at 9:39 PM

2006, another basketball game. Another similar dark haired girl. Another rejected proposal.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ac3AzaDohd0&feature=related

JellyToast on February 14, 2010 at 9:44 PM

Stupider than dwarf tossing? I didn’t think that was possible.

UltimateBob on February 14, 2010 at 9:31 PM

Yeah, dwarf tossing is pretty stupid. Now dwarf bowling is FUN!

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 9:48 PM

I guess the cliche jumped the shark.

Jeff2161 on February 14, 2010 at 9:50 PM

And, it’s not really cool to ask your cousin to be your bride anyway.

b3026 on February 14, 2010 at 9:29 PM

Depends on the jurisdiction.

SagebrushPuppet on February 14, 2010 at 9:58 PM

He’s just lucky she didn’t make the “L” on her forehead as she left him….

lovingmyUSA on February 14, 2010 at 10:00 PM

That was probably ill-considered. I wonder if he stayed and watched the rest of the game?

mr.blacksheep on February 14, 2010 at 8:29 PM

Not only do I hope he stayed and watched the rest of the game but I hope that he was the one who drove!

Jeebus, woman! Have some class and say yes in public and then tell him Hell No later on in private.

CatchAll on February 14, 2010 at 10:12 PM

I recommend the First Lady diet for both.

T J Green on February 14, 2010 at 10:13 PM

Why do I have the feeling that she would have said yes if he had proposed to her in a private, personal, and romantic way instead of to a bunch of Ranger fans?

Dollayo on February 14, 2010 at 10:36 PM

good luck with him trying to find another sucker (er, woman) to marry him.

ranzofola on February 14, 2010 at 10:38 PM

This reminds me of this video of this prank:

http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1774718

Quite funny!

nazo311 on February 14, 2010 at 10:42 PM

This reminds me of this video of this prank:

http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1774718

Quite funny!

nazo311

Are you kidding me?! NOT funny at all! If this is real then I hope that little jacka$$ got his butt kicked.

beachgirlusa on February 14, 2010 at 10:53 PM

Hey, one less gold digger to weed through. He can definitely do better than her.

Punditpawn on February 14, 2010 at 10:57 PM

I think protocol dictates that you can only do this at a baseball game….and you have to have shown her a super-awesome night, like fondue and flowers and chocolates and stuff.

Doing it at a Hockey game is a little low class… and I like hockey.

Rightwingguy on February 14, 2010 at 11:01 PM

nazo311

I thought it was hilarious. Terrible for the girlfriend and the dude being pranked, but funny. I think you can find a joke funny and in poor taste simultaneously.

Rightwingguy on February 14, 2010 at 11:02 PM

I don’t get it. Her reaction was too intense for him not to realize she wouldn’t be up to the question. Weird. Do people really ask someone to marry them that they don’t know that well?

That being said, I’d have preferred the Cheney/Biden verbal Sunday takedowns and little commentary on how the MSM afforded Biden a forum for such a quick response. He really is such a freaking tool.

Back to luge runs….

Sultry Beauty on February 14, 2010 at 11:05 PM

Excuse me, Southern, but are you Bill Randall? or are you just promoting him?

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:48 PM

I am not Bill Randall. You’re the 2nd person to confuse me with him. He’s much more polished and succint than I. Listen to the audio clips on his site (especially the 2nd one with Bill LuMaye). He’s quite the powerhouse.

I live in the district he is running for, and I am doing my best to get him elected. I’ve never met him, but I hope to as I volunteer more and the election to unseat Brad “Death Threat” Miller draws closer.

SouthernGent on February 14, 2010 at 11:24 PM

Ay Caramba, Mr. Big himself.
The fish stinks from the head down.

Lanceman on February 14, 2010 at 8:31 PM

I’d be hard-pressed to name a better episode, and harder-pressed to name a better non-rergular character than Flagg.

SlimyBill on February 14, 2010 at 11:31 PM

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