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Christopher Hitchens remembers a man he never met

posted at 6:33 pm on October 5, 2007 by Allahpundit
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He didn’t know Lt. Mark Daily but Daily knew him through his writing, and was sufficiently moved by Hitch’s case for war with Iraq to enlist and fight the good fight. He ended up in Mosul on January 15 in an unarmored Humvee that rolled over an enormous IED. The L.A. Times wrote his obituary and mentioned his fondness for Hitchens, word of which got back to the author, who contacted Daily’s family and ended up helping to spread his ashes on a beach in Oregon.

As soon as they arrived, I knew I had been wrong to be so nervous. They looked too good to be true: like a poster for the American way. John Daily is an aerospace project manager, and his wife, Linda, is an audiologist. Their older daughter, Christine, eagerly awaiting her wedding, is a high-school biology teacher, and the younger sister, Nicole, is in high school. Their son Eric is a bright junior at Berkeley with a very winning and ironic grin. And there was Mark’s widow, an agonizingly beautiful girl named Snejana (“Janet”) Hristova, the daughter of political refugees from Bulgaria. Her first name can mean “snowflake,” and this was his name for her in the letters of fierce tenderness that he sent her from Iraq. These, with your permission, I will not share, except this:

One thing I have learned about myself since I’ve been out here is that everything I professed to you about what I want for the world and what I am willing to do to achieve it was true. …

My desire to “save the world” is really just an extension of trying to make a world fit for you.

If that is all she has left, I hope you will agree that it isn’t nothing.

Hitch is turning against the war, although his feelings about it will probably, hopefully, never metastasize as fulsomely as his pal Sully’s have. Towards the end:

As one who used to advocate strongly for the liberation of Iraq (perhaps more strongly than I knew), I have grown coarsened and sickened by the degeneration of the struggle: by the sordid news of corruption and brutality (Mark Daily told his father how dismayed he was by the failure of leadership at Abu Ghraib) and by the paltry politicians in Washington and Baghdad who squabble for precedence while lifeblood is spent and spilled by young people whose boots they are not fit to clean. It upsets and angers me more than I can safely say, when I reread Mark’s letters and poems and see that—as of course he would—he was magically able to find the noble element in all this, and take more comfort and inspiration from a few plain sentences uttered by a Kurdish man than from all the vapid speeches ever given.

Those sentences are the epitaph for every man killed in Iraq, but I’ll make you click to find out what they are in hopes that you’ll read the whole piece. Meanwhile, in Iraq, the work goes on.

Update: MM was way ahead of the curve here.


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73 Lt. Daily

Wade on October 5, 2007 at 6:43 PM

Mark had made up his mind that the United States was a force for good in the world, and that it had a duty to the freedom of others.
[I]t’s clear that the country lost an exceptional young citizen, whom I shall always wish I had had the chance to meet…

Spirit of 1776 on October 5, 2007 at 6:59 PM

How tragic this bright life was cut short. I can only feel empathy for a fellow vet and his family. I pray for him and our leaders. Thanks for the link.

Terri on October 5, 2007 at 7:02 PM

If America can spontaneously produce young men like Mark, and occasions like this one, it has a real homeland security instead of a bureaucratic one.

Yep, it sure does. RIP Lt. Mark Daily. Maybe one day more of the nation will appreciate men like you in the way that the Kurdish man in the city of Dahok did.

Big ups to Hitchens for following through with the family.

Tman on October 5, 2007 at 7:19 PM

I have a photograph of him, standing bareheaded and contentedly smoking a cigar, on a rooftop in Mosul. He doesn’t look like an occupier at all. He looks like a staunch friend and defender. On the photograph is written “We carry a new world in our hearts.”

That alone made this article worth reading.

Just beautiful.

The Ugly American on October 5, 2007 at 7:24 PM

In any war there are going to be ups and downs,
emotions as well,every soldier goes in knowingly
whats asked of him,I beleive LT.Mark Dailey was one
of them,of many of them.I believe that all American soldiers
that are fighting in Irag know this is an honourable fight.
I’m sure somewhere in a Liberal basement bunker on home turf
there will be Liberal bloggers trying to figure out how to
exploit and spin this American Serviceman,brave and heroic
LT.Mark Dailey.

canopfor on October 5, 2007 at 7:36 PM

Man Hitchens has a way with words. I rarely get choked up, but that sure did it.

BadgerHawk on October 5, 2007 at 7:49 PM


BadgerHawk on October 5, 2007 at 7:49 PM

It is a beautiful and poignant tribute and I can’t imagine reading it and not getting choked up.

Thanks, Allah!

Buy Danish on October 5, 2007 at 7:57 PM

Hitch is turning against the war

Men, it has been well said, think in herds; it will be seen that they go mad in herds, while they only recover their senses slowly, and one by one.
- Charles Mackay

MB4 on October 5, 2007 at 8:00 PM

Wow, what a great young man. It is a real shame that the best that we produce are the first that we lose. But thank god for them.

And my favorite line in the article,

(Mark Daily told his father how dismayed he was by the failure of leadership at Abu Ghraib) and by the paltry politicians in Washington and Baghdad who squabble for precedence while lifeblood is spent and spilled by young people whose boots they are not fit to clean.

That pretty much applies to everyone in washington, either party and including the vets among them.

conservnut on October 5, 2007 at 8:09 PM

I have grown coarsened and sickened by the degeneration of the struggle

Hitch, please keep the sordid politicians apart from we who fight (and are doing our best to make things in Iraq worthy of the sacrifices made by those like LT Daily). If you turn against the war, you turn against Daily, me and everyone else you profess to be worthy.

major john on October 5, 2007 at 8:16 PM

AP-
When I was young (18) and in the Air Force I often said and thought the types of things that LT. Daily did. Still, I could never have matched the simple eloquence of his words.

Thank you for posting that story—

Nelsa on October 5, 2007 at 8:23 PM

When we speak of the lost in blood and treasure, as we have throughout history, we consider the loss of Mark and the many more courageous citizens who leave this earth a better place.

I’ve never really admired Hitchens. That he is turning against the war comes as no great surprise. He also turns his back on the Almighty.

Captain America on October 5, 2007 at 8:24 PM

As I read this I feel a pang of sorrow, not for Lt. Daily for this valiant young man lived a life albeit shorter than nature and god intended. But for Christopher Hitchen’s. As Christopher had never met Mark Daily, so neither have I met Christopher, yet never the less I feel his pain.

To have published words that move the human soul to actions with inescapable consequences is indeed a heavy burden to bear especially when the reality of those inescapable consequences are brought so poignantly home. The question here which must surly haunt Christopher’s thoughts and dreams is, have I been as responsible with my words as I could have been.

I know that Christopher Hitchen’s will never read these words that I write, nor shall they hold such preeminence as those Irish poet’s and authors he quotes. But I dare, yes I dare suggest to Christopher, that were his ideas of so little value, had they been so far off the mark, then a man of such character as Mark Daily has by his actions proven himself to be would never have considered them worthy of considering let alone following.

Let not your heart be troubled Christopher, for I though I be nobody of any repute, do tell you. There are ideas and ideologies and virtues in this world for which the sacrifices given in their name are indeed worthy of those sacrifices.

Lt. Mark Daily did indeed prove that he believed this very self same thing when he wrote to his dearest wife,

One thing I have learned about myself since I’ve been out here is that everything I professed to you about what I want for the world and what I am willing to do to achieve it was true. …

My desire to “save the world” is really just an extension of trying to make a world fit for you.

His life was not a life thrown away for ideas unworthy of his sacrifice. He was a gallant and heroic figure of a man who understood the risks he took and the reason that he undertook them. Yes, Christopher, we all grieve with his family for their loss. And likewise we grieve for you, for it is a truly noble human being who in moments like this search their soul asking Am I responsible for this tragic event.

In this I answer you, no your’s is not the responsibility, save that you through your words have brought out the finest that their is in any human being, the selfless dedication required to place thoughts of ones own safety and comfort aside to advance the greater good for those unable to make such advances for themselves.

I know that you are not a man of religion nor will any exposition of religion bring you comfort of any kind, yet none the less I leave you with the words of Jesus Christ, no greater love hath an man than he lay down his life for another.

Lt. Mark Daily has shown the truth of that statement whether you believe in a god or not. For he, in a deliberate act of selfless dedication to ensure that the world he and his family lived in would be a better place than that which he found it. You Christopher bear if any responsibility at all, that of encouraging a young man to leave this world a better place than he found it.

I say to you, feel the sorrow of one who paid the ultimate price, but let not that sorrow sway you from the conviction that you have published from which this noble soul drew strength be diminished. Fall not back from that position which would inspire any person to make their world a better place than that which they found it to be.

doriangrey on October 5, 2007 at 8:42 PM

I know this post is about the LT, but no one remembers then men with him?

Spc. Matthew T. Grimm

Sgt. John E. Cooper

Sgt. Ian C. Anderson

Kept the email from a family member in Mosul (and still is until 4th BCT rotates back in 60-something days:

Yep D, thats him, good Kid, only 23, I think he was the oldest in the crew, except for the interpreter, we call them TERPS, also Sgt Anderson wife who was also in the military was here in another unit, and they just had a new baby about 6 months agao and was with the grandparents, It also didn’t mention the one that was shot in the back or the one that had his legs crushed.

TheEJS on October 5, 2007 at 9:02 PM

No phony soldier there! May he rest in peace.

SouthernGent on October 5, 2007 at 9:12 PM

doriangrey on October 5, 2007 at 8:42 PM

Very well said indeed.

conservnut on October 5, 2007 at 9:12 PM

On the 15th of January last, he was on patrol and noticed that the Humvee in front of him was not properly “up-armored” against I.E.D.’s. He insisted on changing places and taking a lead position in his own Humvee, and was shortly afterward hit by an enormous buried mine that packed a charge of some 1,500 pounds of high explosive.

BohicaTwentyTwo on October 5, 2007 at 9:19 PM

doriangrey on October 5, 2007 at 8:42 PM

I concur, very, very well said doriangrey.

Texas Gal on October 5, 2007 at 9:29 PM

Glad you posted this article. Read it earlier today and I was blown away. One of Hitchens’ finest pieces of writing, because it is, ultimately, an accurate reflection of who he is.

…paltry politicians in Washington and Baghdad who squabble for precedence while lifeblood is spent and spilled by young people whose boots they are not fit to clean.

The essence, right there, of why his support for the war has cooled of late. There were no names named, or parties pilloried. It’s a blanket indictment of the system by a man who does not want any sacrifices made in vain.

Krydor on October 5, 2007 at 10:31 PM

Beautiful piece. It did more to make me feel ashamed at not having served than all the antiwar nuts’ “chickenhawk” smears I’ve ever encountered.

Upon reaching the end, I refused (and refuse) to tarnish my memory of that article by clicking on the Digg link, no matter my morbid curiosity over what comments the Diggbats have left.

Hannibal Smith on October 5, 2007 at 10:56 PM

Journeying over many seas and through many countries
I come dear brother to this pitiful leave-taking
the last gestures by your graveside
the futility of words over your quiet ashes.
Life cleft us from each other
pointlessly depriving brother of brother.
Accept then, in our parents’ custom
these offerings, this leave-taking
echoing forever, brother, through a a brother’s tears.

-Catullus: ‘Hail & Farewell’

profitsbeard on October 6, 2007 at 12:51 AM

I only wonder why it can’t be the moonbats that the terrorists kill rather than these heroes.

Tim Burton on October 6, 2007 at 1:22 AM

“…but I’ll make you click…”

As the perpetual asker of favors, could you change that to ‘I hope you click’, ‘please click’, ‘you should click’ etc? Something about that phrase forces me not to click the link.

Thanks!

Kevin M on October 6, 2007 at 5:20 AM

Hitch has never been better! Home run and God Bless this man’s wonderful family in their time of grief!

sabbott on October 6, 2007 at 10:51 AM

Mr. Hitchens is a class act.

trainwife1962 on October 6, 2007 at 5:19 PM

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